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 sunshine226 (original poster member #38851) posted at 10:10 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013

WH lives with OW, but last night he came here, need to get some work done at the new house

This morning, I got up with WH when he got up to go to work and he just left, so I decided to check out OW's fb page.

I have never been able to see any of her pics other than the cover photo she has of WH and her son, all of a sudden, there's tons of pictures of OW and WH, WH with her kids, probably over 100, pics of them at a waterpark a few weeks ago!

And I noticed she didnt post them until last night and was still awake playing a game at 3 a.m.

Now, it has me thinking, because WH was in here with me, yes she knew he was in here, she cant sleep and starts posting pics for everyone to see, whats up with that????

I can only assume her insecurity is shining through now, why else is this stuff plastered all over her page all of sudden.

Last night was ok, DD and WH got into it, she tells him off big time and gives him a piece of her mind, he deserves it

Would like to get someone else's opinion on her latest behaviour, am I just reading to much into it?

Me-BS (44)
Him-WS (47)
DDay 1/1/2012, common law for 22 1/2 years when he began A in September 2011
Status: moving on without him

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:33 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013

It's possible, sunshine. Here's my concern - OW's mind is the last place on Earth you want to be poking around.

I wouldn't give her or her motivations one ounce of your attention. Focus on you and your kids, okay? That's it. Not OW and, at this point, not even WH. ((((hugs))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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 sunshine226 (original poster member #38851) posted at 8:40 PM on Sunday, September 15th, 2013

She called me pathetic one time, I really believe now that she is the pathetic one, especially with plastering all these photos on FB.

And I took a really good look at them after, she is dressed like a frigging hooker. This woman is supposedly 40 and definitely over 200 lbs, mix that with a very short mini skirt, see through and tight, low cut tank top and I could definitely see her working a street corner

One set of pictures, they are at a family waterpark, and shes dressed like a hoe, (oh wait, she is one so she dress like one too )

But have some respect for your son and the general public who have to look at your fat ass, YUCK

Guess thats what turns WH on now

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Status: moving on without him

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 sunshine226 (original poster member #38851) posted at 12:45 PM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

so DD saw the pics OW has been posting

I didnt tell her about them so her reaction to seeing them was honest!

In one of the pics, DD said "what the hell is she wearing?" When she showed me, it was the one I noticed she was dressed like a hooker, very short skirt and low cut tight tank top showing A LOT of cleavage, this on a woman that is well over 200 lbs

Now, wonder if DD will send OW another msg on fb telling her off like she did when OW posted a pic of her son and WH, DD really let her have for that one, called her a whore and a fucking homewrecker and let the OW know that she hates her!!

Me-BS (44)
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Status: moving on without him

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 4:08 PM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

Why is your daughter involved at all? This is NOT okay. On the one hand I want to support you because of the obvious emotional pain you're in. On the other hand, I'm back to being upset that your daughter is involved in any way.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
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Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 10:09 PM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

Yes I think she's insecure, couldn't sleep knowing where ws was, and posted pix to convince herself and the world that he's her guy

BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

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 sunshine226 (original poster member #38851) posted at 9:12 PM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013

my daughter is 16 and son is 23, they are forming their own opinions about their dad and OW, with little imput from me.

I dont like that my daughter saw these pictures but she can handle it, last time she posted a very nasty message to OW about a pic OW posted of WH and her son.

My children have been abandoned by WH and OW kicks up a big stink whenever he wants to come see them. She wanted to come to dd's sporting event and instead of standing up to her, WH just decided not to show up, hurting my daughter just to shut up the OW

Everytime he does something to shut her up, I'm the one that gets hurt along with our children, DD told WH last time he was in her, and if OW had called while he was here, she would have told her off too.

Big time insecurity from OW, now WH tells me someone called her the night he was here to tell her he was here and I was home (he lied and told her I was gone for the night). As far as i am concerned this is all bullshit from the OW, just trying to trip up WH in his lies, but she doesnt want to believe me?!!?!?!?!

She is one sick individual

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 sunshine226 (original poster member #38851) posted at 2:01 AM on Sunday, October 20th, 2013

UPDATE

Just for those trying to follow my story

And the confirmations just keep pouring in

Seems that OW was overheard saying that she posted the pictures back in September mostly to piss me off and will not remove them.

Like WTF????????

Ok, I know I suspected this all along and thought she had a motive for posting all those pictures but come on

But as I thought of the pictures back then and I definitely do now, they dont piss me off, they just show me without a shadow of a doubt just how truly pathetic she is

Me-BS (44)
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