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User Topic: The cozy shirt
♀ 37951
Member # 37951
Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH had an old comfy cozy shirt, it was his favorite. One day he saw a new shirt that he just had to have. He tried it on and kept it. As time when on the new shirt became his favorite and the old one was tossed out with the trash. One day his new shirt was not so nice anymore and he longed to the security of the old one. He went digging in the trash and found it. The shirt was stained, torn, worn bare in spots and smelly. He scrubbed, sewed, and prayed for his old shirt to be as comforting as before. The damage was too much, the shirt was destroyed. Never to return to its former state.

Why was I so disposable? Now he wants his wife back, the same one he tossed. I no longer exist.

BS-me 45
married 11 yrs, together 15
DS13 DS9
Dday May 2012 EA
False R... Dday#2 11/30/2012 PA same MOW

The opposite of love is not hate ... It is indifference.
seems I'm on the 15 year plan

Posts: 73 | Registered: Dec 2012
♀ 40330
Member # 40330
Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The question is, do you want HIM back?

If you want him back, he can either accept the new you, or not.

Have you told him exactly how you feel? That the old you is not there, you have changed, and your changes have come as a result of his actions?

DD 1: PA 12/4/09 He spent 2.5 years with OW1
R: 8/31/2012
DD 2: EA 8/16/13
BS: 26
WH: 25
1 young daughter.
Terribly disgusted. He refuses to give up his "friend". Headed towards D.

Posts: 138 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: kentucky
Topic Posts: 2

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