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User Topic: sister fight
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My sister's birthday is today. I have leaned on her mightily this year. She isn't the best gift giver and I don't care! She gives in so many other ways.

I sent her a Columbia fleece vest! My Mom started an email to all of us three girls and told what she is sending her. I added what I was sending her. My other sister says this and includes everyone:
I'm not sending her jack shit because she never sends me jack shit.

They have never gotten along too well. I can barely speak to my "jack shit" sister as she is so judgmental of me.

I want to reply but don't know what to say. Or, crickets?


Posts: 7613 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wouldn't say anything. Let them hash it out.


A wise woman once said "fuck this shit" and she lived happily ever after.

If you want them to quit stabbing you in the back, then you need to quit handing them the knife.


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

don't feed the drama llama

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Chirp chirp, rachel. I wouldn't step into that for all the money in the world.


You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

crickets all day, sister. Save your sanity.


MH - 43
Separated..
Nothing left to give....
"She is clothed with strenth & dignity and she laughs without fear of the future." #BlackLivesMatter

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rachelc
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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yes, she wants a reaction from us, although birthday sister will not respond in any way, I know her.

But, what a crappy thing to do. I guess my limited contact with judgmental sister continues to be the right thing to do....


Posts: 7613 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oh my!! There's soooo many things to say to her.

The best? Crickets!

(they just hate that, don't they??)


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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travels
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Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm limited contact with my judgmental/toxic sister. Best decision I ever made.

She likes to send texts that need no reply. Yet, she always expects an "ok" reply for everything. The rebel that I am, I don't send the "ok." I know it drives her crazy, but I don't care.


When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship."

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