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User Topic: I'm doing well in my healing.
♀ 16935
Member # 16935
Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, it's been a while since my divorce. The first year I can't tell you what I did, where I went or what happened. I was in such a fog and was just happy to make it from one day to the next.

There was a time where when I found out that something bad had happened to my x I was ecstatic, applauded and wanted to make sure that the Karma Bus had plenty of gas in the tank so that it would keep running and would not just run over him but would even back up on him.

I recently found out that the x is again having bad things happening to him. I found that my first thought wasn't of joy and happiness. Instead I felt sorry for the guy. He's a grown man and hasn't really accomplished anything in his life. He has nothing and nor does his live in floozy.

I no longer even want to hear about his misfortunes. I don't want to know and I don't care. I have nothing but pity for him.

I told all of this to my ic. She looked at me smiled and said, b2, you have come a long way in your healing process. You are more then well on your way. I looked at her, smiled and thoughtfully responded, yes, yes, I do believe you are right.

Hmm,.... there was a time when I thought I would never get here.

Posts: 2053 | Registered: Nov 2007
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Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


A wise woman once said "fuck this shit" and she lived happily ever after.

If someone keeps stabbing you in the back, then quit handing them the knife.

Posts: 17169 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay and thanks for not inciting the f&g folks with other bad ideas in the last 10 months.

Best of luck on your continued healing

Posts: 54405 | Registered: Jun 2007
♂ 38122
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 6:41 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That sounds fantastic! Congratulations for reaching this point.

Me: 1970
Two sons: 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?

Married Aug/95
DDay Nov/12
Separated Mar/13
Finally divorced Jul/17

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3590 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
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