Of course, then tonight I asked him if he saw Coworker #1 today. He said yes, she sat down with him and some other coworkers at lunchtime and he chatted with her. Which is something we talked about at MC last week, because he admits to occasional chats about light personal topics with Coworker #1. We discussed at MC how even though the conversation might be "nothing inappropriate" and he "knows now what he did was wrong," it is still unwise to have personal conversations with a previous OW, who has proven herself to be a person with poor boundaries in the past. The MC explained to WH how he needs to recognize that boundaries are a weakness for him and it would probably be best for him to avoid friendships with such people, especially a person he's had inappropriate relationships with before. Apparently that all went right over his head.
I didn't say anything today. I'm tired of beating my head against the wall about it. I'm just tired of all of it. I'm really tempted right now to just keep my mouth shut and observe, give him all the rope, and see how long it takes him to hang himself with it.
[This message edited by MylarPineapples at 9:28 PM, September 12th (Thursday)]