Cookies are required for login or registration. Please read and agree to our cookie policy to continue.

Newest Member: ZombieGirl2

Off Topic :
Question about Yom Kippur

This Topic is Archived
default

 fireproof (original poster member #36126) posted at 3:43 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

If you had a chance to visit friends and visit local sites on the weekend(Yom Kippur)would you prefer doing that or a relaxing day at home reflecting?

posts: 1563   ·   registered: Jul. 14th, 2012
id 6485344
default

alphakitte ( member #33438) posted at 3:55 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

It is the Aholiest Of Days for us. Those that take it serious would not like to be distracted with secular issues and sites. But, everyone practices differently. It is best to ask.

------ Some people are emotional tadpoles. Even if they mature they are just a warty toad. Catt

posts: 636   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2011   ·   location: 3 klicks north of Ambiguous
id 6485350
default

sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:15 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Depends on whether or not you're Jewish and your flavor, if you are.

As a Jew, I don't find Yom Kippur reflections to be relaxing, and the only local site I would travel to on Yom Kippur is a synagogue so I could participate in public prayer.

But that's me. Some Jews would consider me to be an apostate. Others would consider me to be way too Orthodox.

In this, as in so many things, you have to make your own choice and hope you're making the one that is best for you and, if you're Jewish, I guess you need to consider 'the community', too.

[This message edited by sisoon at 12:16 PM, September 13th (Friday)]

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 31107   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 6486053
default

jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 10:49 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Fireproof... why do you ask?

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

posts: 26375   ·   registered: Dec. 14th, 2009   ·   location: Michigan
id 6486355
default

 fireproof (original poster member #36126) posted at 11:23 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

I made plans and I didn't want people to feel obligated. For example I had a friend who was married Jewish and Jewish herself and had a Christmas tree. I know things vary but on special holidays I want to be sensitive.

posts: 1563   ·   registered: Jul. 14th, 2012
id 6486402
default

jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 12:06 AM on Saturday, September 14th, 2013

I think the best people to ask would the people directly involved in your plans.

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

posts: 26375   ·   registered: Dec. 14th, 2009   ·   location: Michigan
id 6486462
This Topic is Archived
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.001.20250404a 2002-2025 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy