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User Topic: Today is bittersweet
♀ 38735
Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today is my sweet, baby boy's first birthday. I spent the day with him before Gnat and Hello Kitty got the kids overnight. I have them all weekend and am having a birthday party on Sunday which they are NOT invited to.

I was thinking back to a year ago when I gave birth to him. It was such a happy time for us. I never in a million years would have imagined that anything like this would have happened. I would never have dreamed I'd be a single mom before he turned one.

Ironically, I didn't feel that sad about it. I sort of just thought about it in a matter of fact way. It's been a tough year, but I'm closer to my kids than ever. The outpouring of support I've received has been humbling. I've got wonderful friends and family and I have a really full life. Life is much richer than I could have imagined a year ago.

I know I've still got a lot of work to do on this road to healing, but I also know I've come a long ways. I'm feeling blessed tonight and really hopeful about my future.

BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 1268 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: AZ
♀ 37215
Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday to your baby boy!! Good job mommy! It was so nice to read your post ~ keep moving forward!!

Posts: 2868 | Registered: Oct 2012
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, first birthdays are such a big deal to me! Happy Birthday, Baby Boy!

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
♀ 33539
Member # 33539
Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday to your Baby boy!

S, Filed 4/17/14--YAY, ME!!

Posts: 515 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: New York
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