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Divorce/Separation :
Today is bittersweet

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 newlysingle (original poster member #38735) posted at 4:05 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Today is my sweet, baby boy's first birthday. I spent the day with him before Gnat and Hello Kitty got the kids overnight. I have them all weekend and am having a birthday party on Sunday which they are NOT invited to.

I was thinking back to a year ago when I gave birth to him. It was such a happy time for us. I never in a million years would have imagined that anything like this would have happened. I would never have dreamed I'd be a single mom before he turned one.

Ironically, I didn't feel that sad about it. I sort of just thought about it in a matter of fact way. It's been a tough year, but I'm closer to my kids than ever. The outpouring of support I've received has been humbling. I've got wonderful friends and family and I have a really full life. Life is much richer than I could have imagined a year ago.

I know I've still got a lot of work to do on this road to healing, but I also know I've come a long ways. I'm feeling blessed tonight and really hopeful about my future.

BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

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dmari ( member #37215) posted at 4:24 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Happy birthday to your baby boy!! Good job mommy! It was so nice to read your post ~ keep moving forward!!

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 5:02 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Oh, first birthdays are such a big deal to me! Happy Birthday, Baby Boy!

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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npain ( member #33539) posted at 2:44 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Happy Birthday to your Baby boy!

S, Filed 4/17/14--YAY, ME!!

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