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How the hell do you deal with a passive agressive????
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kansas1968 posted 9/13/2013 01:02 AM
We have been doing great. Obviously a lot of connection and love between us. But EVERYTIME I try to talk about the affair, or anything related to it, it ends up in a fight and him feeling sorry for himself. How does a normal person deal with this?? It is driving me crazy.
hemademesingle posted 9/13/2013 05:22 AM
Is he in counselling for the passive aggressive? If not then what is he doing to fix himself? Self help books?
It's hard work for a passive aggressive to fix themselves, takes many years to learn how to change themselves,
bionicgal posted 9/13/2013 07:19 AM
It does sound like he needs some communication and relationship skills. It can't be swept under the rug, or the chances of his repeating are too high.
ItsaClimb posted 9/13/2013 07:29 AM
I hear you, I'm dealing with a passive aggressive too... it's so frustrating and exhausting!
outtanowhere posted 9/13/2013 08:56 AM
I'm dealing with this too. Makes me want to shoot blood out of my eyes! 
FYI, there is a thread about PA in the I Can Relate forum.