Topic: A year ago today...
Member # 38230
| Posted: 7:00 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
A year ago today I was happy. A year ago today I was content. A year ago today I was in a 19 year happy marriage.
A year ago tonight....not so much.
I truly try to stay in the present. But today....its gonna be tough.
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life
Posts: 234 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
Member # 36622
| Posted: 7:23 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
fWS 37 (SurprisinglyOkay)
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"
Posts: 2732 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 31528
| Posted: 7:38 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
Posts: 38199 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 36519
| Posted: 8:55 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
Oh, I know. Your whole world changes. It casts a shadow on everything and makes you question everything you thought you knew about yourself and about the person you thought you were closest to.
((( Yakamishi )))
BS (me): 50
Married: 26 yrs
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R
Posts: 1061 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 30817
| Posted: 11:39 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
Hang in there today.
2 ddays in '07
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Posts: 6831 | Registered: Jan 2011
Member # 40050
| Posted: 11:44 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
So sorry for you. There's nothing that compares to the horror of the discovery, except maybe the lies that follow.
Me BW, Him WH (sosorry54)
TT until 9/18/14
Posts: 151 | Registered: Jul 2013
Member # 30369
| Posted: 2:16 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
We're here for you to lean on. Sending you strength.
“When we protect ourselves so we won't feel pain, that protection becomes like armor, like armor that imprisons the softness of the heart.” ― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 10423 | Registered: Dec 2010
Member # 40505
| Posted: 3:07 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013|
Hope you got through it okay. Onwards and upwards...
Posts: 63 | Registered: Aug 2013
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