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User Topic: Just realized the D day
♂ 36336
Member # 36336
Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I come here, read, relate, wish I could help but can't put into words the correct way to make people feel better. Then I looked at my User Name. It has been over 2 yrs since D day. It came, and went....without even knowing. HA!
I really hope this helps someone, but there comes a time when you actually are happier than you have ever been! But NOBODY can make you happy but yourself! Not even the hot woman that can't get enough of you.
I give all credit, though, to God, Jesus, my family, and my friends.
I'm not here to say "look at me". I'm here to tell you to keep your head up! you have been through one of the most horrific events of your life that most can't even comprehend. Focus on the positives in your life. If you can't, do something for someone else and quit thinking about yourself. Heck, even think about your X. Aren't you glad your not carry'n that feeling of hurting someone so deep that they dug deeper than rock bottom? that's gotta suck.
Smile, you look much happier and feel much better when ya do. Can I get an AMEN!

Posts: 185 | Registered: Aug 2012
♀ 30707
Member # 30707
Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's awesome
New beginnings can't hold old anger.

What doesn't kill us makes us smaller. - Mario

Posts: 290 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Canada
♀ 31468
Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great post 9.10.11! You have a date similar to mine - so logical it's easy to remember - mine is technically 1.11.11 (he walked out without a word on 1/10, but disclosed on 1/11).

It's been gradual, but I really noticed a huge difference in ME at the two year point.

Me: BW-46
Him: XWH-46

Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

Posts: 5287 | Registered: Mar 2011
♂ 34426
Member # 34426
Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad your feeling better.

I'm almost at 2 years, I still want her dead though! Don't think that will ever change for me no matter how many years it is.

Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 682 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
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