Ok so first time posting in this forum. I guess I feel ok to move on to here now. My divorce is final and I am feeling for the most part pretty good about life in general.
So this is where my NB starts – I’ve been “talking?” to a guy from work. We sit near each other and never really spoken before aside from normal passing in the hall pleasantries but we happened to leave at the same time a few weeks ago – started chatting – which lead to a HH drink – and then to IM’ing and now texting.
I like him, he seems nice. There is of course a catch. 1) He’s younger than me. 11 years to be exact. I feel like a hypocrite considering that I’ve made fun of my EXWH gf’s age for the past 2 years. So it makes me think of all the things I’ve said about them and why their relationship is ridiculous and won’t work and here I’m “talking” to a guy the same age. And 2) he’s of a different religious background then me. He is non-believing/practicing as am I, however, he comes from a family that is old school and therefore, I cannot possibly imagine would approve. Not that there’s anything to approve of but I fully know how much a family’s influence can have in a relationship if it were to get serious.
So I don’t know where I’m going with this, but maybe some insight. This is my first foray into dating or whatever it is that we’re doing since my split and D. Man I feel old and don’t know what I’m doing!!