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Topic: A Milestone of 35 Years

Elaine2012
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Member # 36099

Posted: 7:11 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013

I was married 35 years ago today. And instead of celebrating this day I'm looking happily to the day I can say I'm D. We finally had meditation last Friday and hopefully with one more meeting it will be DONE.

We had so much and most of it was all lies. The very best is that I have my 4 beautiful DDs and now 1 SIL and 3 GCs.

Better days are ahead and I will look for other things to be happy about today!

ETA: Fixed typos.

[This message edited by Elaine2012 at 3:16 PM, September 16th (Monday)]

Me- 55
WH-who cares
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

Posts: 297 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: I'm surrounded by majestic mountain ranges

movingforward13
♀ 38405
Member # 38405

Posted: 8:58 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013

*hugs* to a better new beginning and life!

Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 679 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC

Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554

Posted: 10:31 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013

I'm sorry, sister. Better days are coming, though, right? They're coming.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA

dmari
♀ 37215
Member # 37215

Posted: 11:05 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013

Fingers crossed for the LAST meeting to go smoothly so that you can celebrate your D! You are so blessed and have many happy things to think about today!

I SURVIVED infidelity. Me 45, DD 21, DS 17
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2842 | Registered: Oct 2012

Elaine2012
♀ 36099
Member # 36099

Posted: 5:00 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013

Thanks for the encouragement ladies. I stayed busy and started a Divorce Care session that night. My last group has brought me healing and lots of new friends. We'll see how this group goes and if we can make friendships to expand our support. I wasn't sure if I needed another go round but found it brought up more feelings that I've got to work on.

One thing that is different about my life is that I have a social life that is full and fun. I had friends before but STBX would find negative things to say about them which I interpreted to mean he didn't approve. It was easier to just not do things together. Moving on!

Me- 55
WH-who cares
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

Posts: 297 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: I'm surrounded by majestic mountain ranges

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