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Elaine2012 posted 9/16/2013 07:11 AM

I was married 35 years ago today. And instead of celebrating this day I'm looking happily to the day I can say I'm D. We finally had meditation last Friday and hopefully with one more meeting it will be DONE.

We had so much and most of it was all lies. The very best is that I have my 4 beautiful DDs and now 1 SIL and 3 GCs.

Better days are ahead and I will look for other things to be happy about today!

ETA: Fixed typos.

[This message edited by Elaine2012 at 3:16 PM, September 16th (Monday)]

movingforward13 posted 9/16/2013 08:58 AM

*hugs* to a better new beginning and life!

Nature_Girl posted 9/16/2013 10:31 AM

I'm sorry, sister. Better days are coming, though, right? They're coming.

dmari posted 9/16/2013 11:05 AM

Fingers crossed for the LAST meeting to go smoothly so that you can celebrate your D! You are so blessed and have many happy things to think about today!

Elaine2012 posted 9/18/2013 17:00 PM

Thanks for the encouragement ladies. I stayed busy and started a Divorce Care session that night. My last group has brought me healing and lots of new friends. We'll see how this group goes and if we can make friendships to expand our support. I wasn't sure if I needed another go round but found it brought up more feelings that I've got to work on.

One thing that is different about my life is that I have a social life that is full and fun. I had friends before but STBX would find negative things to say about them which I interpreted to mean he didn't approve. It was easier to just not do things together. Moving on!