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Elaine2012 (original poster member #36099) posted at 1:11 PM on Monday, September 16th, 2013
I was married 35 years ago today. And instead of celebrating this day I'm looking happily to the day I can say I'm D. We finally had meditation last Friday and hopefully with one more meeting it will be DONE.
We had so much and most of it was all lies. The very best is that I have my 4 beautiful DDs and now 1 SIL and 3 GCs.
Better days are ahead and I will look for other things to be happy about today!
ETA: Fixed typos.
[This message edited by Elaine2012 at 3:16 PM, September 16th (Monday)]
Me- 60 ish
WH-no longer relevant
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 3 SIL, 6 grandchildren
movingforward13 ( member #38405) posted at 2:58 PM on Monday, September 16th, 2013
*hugs* to a better new beginning and life!
Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 4:31 PM on Monday, September 16th, 2013
I'm sorry, sister. Better days are coming, though, right? They're coming.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 5:05 PM on Monday, September 16th, 2013
Fingers crossed for the LAST meeting to go smoothly so that you can celebrate your D! You are so blessed and have many happy things to think about today!
Elaine2012 (original poster member #36099) posted at 11:00 PM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
Thanks for the encouragement ladies. I stayed busy and started a Divorce Care session that night. My last group has brought me healing and lots of new friends. We'll see how this group goes and if we can make friendships to expand our support. I wasn't sure if I needed another go round but found it brought up more feelings that I've got to work on.
One thing that is different about my life is that I have a social life that is full and fun. I had friends before but STBX would find negative things to say about them which I interpreted to mean he didn't approve. It was easier to just not do things together. Moving on!
Me- 60 ish
WH-no longer relevant
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 3 SIL, 6 grandchildren
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