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We're closing in on 6 months past D-day 2, the day WH confessed that he took the A underground all the while I thought we were working through things. When it dawned on me it's been almost 6 months, which most consider the "pure hell" part of the process, I find myself looking back at this time. While I think overall we're doing pretty well, one thing that is absolutely devastating me and really just dawning on me is the intense amount of TT that has occurred. To think back at the story he confessed back in March, and now realize the drastic difference between the story then and the story now is just tearing me apart. So now, here I am reconciling with a man whom I have no idea if I have any clue what he's done, knowing that he can still lie to me "Do you promise you've told me everything?" "Yes, I promise.". I so want to get past this gut wrenching phase but I fear this will go on and on. I want to bring all of this up in MC this week and I want to beg him, there, to please tell me EVERYTHING so we can move forward and not keep me stuck in this hell.
Are there any good articles or posts on the evils of TT? I'd like to give him something to read before MC, and then hopefully between that and asking him while we're there, I can perhaps get the rest of the story.

We're closing in on 6 months past D-day 2, the day WH confessed that he took the A underground all the while I thought we were working through things.  When it dawned on me it's been almost 6 months, which most consider the "pure  hell" part of the process, I find myself looking back at this time.  While I think overall we're doing pretty well, one thing that is absolutely devastating me and really just dawning on me is the intense amount of TT that has occurred.  To think back at the story he confessed back in March, and now realize the drastic difference between the story then and the story now is just tearing me apart. So now, here I am reconciling with a man whom I have no idea if I have any clue what he's done, knowing that he can still lie to me "Do you promise you've told me everything?" "Yes, I promise.". I so want to get past this gut wrenching phase but I fear this will go on and on.  I want to  bring all of this up in MC this week and I want to  beg him, there, to please tell me EVERYTHING so we can move forward and not keep me stuck in this hell.  
Are there any good articles or posts on the evils of TT?  I'd like to give him something to read before MC, and then hopefully between that and asking him while we're there, I can perhaps get the rest of the story.

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