Topic: Today is my 18th anniversary....
Member # 30346
| Posted: 8:01 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013|
Today is my 18th wedding anniversary (since we still are separated for financial reasons...filing the end of the year to get the last tax break) and I didn't even remember until a few hours in! Woo HOO! Last year I still felt some pain...today I'm not feeling any pain. None. It really is amazing how time heals.
I think I'm happier that I don't feel pain...does that make sense? I'll go buy myself something pretty today.
me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Posts: 4429 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Member # 37063
| Posted: 8:21 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013|
Yay! I think that is a huge testament to the growth and healing you've done. Definitely buy yourself something pretty, you more than deserve it!
Me BxW, him SA NPD WxH
1 wonderful toddler - sole legal custody to me and supervised visitation to xwh.
10/2013 Finally Divorced!!
Posts: 280 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 36827
| Posted: 10:12 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013|
Totally makes sense!... Congratulations! Time and true detachment are the cure, and like you I am so glad I am at the same place. None of us would have believed it could be true, but as the wise ones who guided us by virtue of their own experiences has shown, it is.
Now get going on treating yourself! Best of luck to you!
Edit, I hate my spelling mistakes...
[This message edited by Shockleader at 10:28 AM, September 16th (Monday)]
D-Day spring 2012
Me BS 48
One DD 19
Married 23 years
Divorced 12/23/13 Fu*king A!
The cruel, the unkind, those without honor, feast on the tender heart...
Posts: 654 | Registered: Sep 2012
Member # 15906
| Posted: 2:39 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013|
It would have been my 18th as well.
It's a distant memory and kind of a meh moment for me now.
I really don't forget though because it's also my Dad and stepmom's (OW) 17th anniversary too. A bit weird.
SO-5 years together-he decided to end it by cheating too
Posts: 1391 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: PNW country
Member # 209
| Posted: 4:31 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013|
Two boys: 17 and 14
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25649 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
Member # 36099
| Posted: 4:57 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013|
Last year I still felt some pain...today I'm not feeling any pain. None. It really is amazing how time heals
. Time does wonders for healing.
Today is my 35th and the second one since dday. I'm not really sad just disappointed that instead of celebrating I'm looking forward to the day I can say I'm D. It won't be soon enough for me.
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren
Posts: 290 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: I'm surrounded by majestic mountain ranges
Member # 20150
| Posted: 8:35 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
It gets more 'meh' with every passing year.
Good on ya.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 18104 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
|Sad in AZ|
Member # 24239
| Posted: 9:59 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
My first 'anniversary' post D would have been the 34th. I de-celebrated it by going to Las Vegas with SI friends--it was great!
The following year I was busy with work and almost forgot about it. It does get more 'meh' as the years go on.
May your 2015 be more FUCK YEAH! than fuck this
Posts: 21008 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
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