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User Topic: 1st anniversary since I found out my husband was cheating...
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Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So today is my two year anniversary. Its been two years that we got my husband into the country from England to be together...after 4 years of back and forth and being apart.

We celebrated our 1st anniversary and I thought he was the world, I worshipped the ground he walked on and was the happiest I had ever been. We had twin babies. things were good. Two months after our 1st anniversary he cheated on me for a slut co worker that was 12 years older than me, and lied...the affair was 2 months.

Since today is my anniversary since I found out that my husband betrayed me and slept with someone else after I have given everything I have (emotionally, financially and every other way) I feel sad.

I am happy that we are at two years. It was what I wanted for a long time. I love him, but I dont love him the same. I miss feeling like he was the world. I hurt badly today and feel such sadness that the person I said was my soulmate lied to me and gave something very special away...and we will never get that back. And he still blames me.

He is happy today, but I am sad. It is bitter sweet.

I just wanted to share my feelings of pain and extreme sadness and hurt with someone. (He thinks me reading this site and the people on here are stupid) I like knowing I am not alone.

OW - (former co worker of WH)
Dday: Dec 2012

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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry you are hurting today. Hope it starts to get better soon.

Tempus Fuckit.

- Ricky

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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

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