Fortunately for my WH and his OW, current technology doesn't allow me to access the substance of their text message exchanges. I can't shine a light on all of it, destroying their ugly little secrets.
At least for now, anyway. I can get them with the help of a lawyer which means they will never be completely GONE, but I find little reassurance in that because I struggle daily with the content of their conversations.
I haven't done a lot of internet scouring lately, but have come to the decision that OW was communicating with WH via her Pinterest account. He created an account just so he could follow her. Really? If you knew my WH, you'd understand why that's sooooo...I dunno...uncharacteristic of him.
But I digress.
Pretty much everything pinned in the past 35ish weeks sounds like something she was probably saying to him.
As recently as 8 weeks ago (about 1 week after DD), she was pinning/commenting "we will get through this".
Six weeks ago, she alluded to "knowing the lies you're telling right now"...and went on to say something about "people you know who are confiding in me".
30+ weeks ago, her posts sound as if the two of them were talking about leaving their spouses.
But one pin, from 33 weeks ago, makes me want to scream at the world to warn of her hipocracy:
"I don't want perfect. I want honest."
You're made of dishonest homewrecking scum. You couldn't get enough of the cheating, lying, betraying side of my husband.