Just a vent--
Yes, now it's all my fault that I found out his A was really over 7 YEARS long, and not just 8 months. Yup, found that out when he came clean about 24 hours ago--apparently very nervous about going in front of our pastor.
Oh, the blame is all on me tonight. Guess his first individual counseling session this afternoon didn't make any new brain cells connection.
Now it's MY fault that I "had to" go back and check the cell phone records this past Tues & Wed, when all he asked me to do was see why our minutes were over the limit for this month.
I *had to* keep asking him questions. I *had to* keep DIGGING. He was fine with me just thinking it was an 8 month long peccadillo...but nooooooo, I had to find out more.
Yeah, at least SEVEN YEARS long. And it wasn't just a hand job or blow job in a vehicle, it was full on sex in her bed, along with cunnilingus.
Sorry, WS, I refuse to accept blame for YOUR actions and for the lies you told and for your being caught yet again in multiple lies.
I'm going to call you on your shit, and mention that you're trying to make me defensive so as to pass the blame of the affair on to me because of my digging for more info.
You have to own your shit or you'll wallow in it.
How clueless can you be? Apparently, REALLY clueless if you are pretending so you can get away with it!