Oh, hangingontohope7, so sorry. I am right there with you in this boat.
It is so unfair. It totally sucks. Your life, your kids lives, the home, the job, the money, the safety and security- all of it taken away by the actions of a selfish, pathetic, weak husband.
It is so incredibly selfish. I will never, ever understand how someone can do this to the person he vowed to love, honor and protect. It is so disrespectful, so hurtful.
If they want out, fine, there are better ways to handle it. Having an A for sex and then falling "in love with" some whore and then willing to risk their whole life and the lives of their partner and children- for what? A fresh start? A do over? WTF.
I will never get it. I guess there are just two types in the world, Givers and Takers. Takers take- they F*** others over if it gets in the way of their own needs.
I am so sorry for what you are going through. That totally sucks. The thought of some whore sitting on your furniture in your house is discusting. SO UNFAIR! sorry!