Mr. McOgerlover emailed: I will be in town 16 Sept 13 for my Dr appointment so if its ok with you I can pick up the rest of my things on 17 Sept 13 and transport them to storage.
I emailed: Saturday, 21 September or Sunday, 22 September works better for me if you aren't busy that day.
Mr. McOgerlover emailed back: Saturday is fine. What time can I come by to pick up my things?
I responded: Anytime after 1000. I need to be done by 1630. If you cannot accomplish everything on that day in that time frame, I am available on 22 Sep any time all day after church. Church gets out for me at 1200.
Mr. McOgerlover, you are welcome on the property to come get your stuff. Only you. Please do not disrespect me in this matter. Thank you.
Mr. McOgerlover: StillLivin I would appreciate it greatly if you would please stop telling me that, thank you.
Seeing as she just moved to AZ from PA this week, I’ve never had reason to tell him this. He has called her in front of me, texted her in front of me, accepted her calls in front of me, told me he loves her in front of me (while telling me it was his daughter or his sister, of course)for the last 3 years of our marriage when I didn't know about the affair, that I felt it very much necessary to gently inform him she is not welcome. I felt it prudent NOT to bluntly blurt out that she is not welcome and that I will have her skank ass arrested for trespassing if she so much as steps a toe on my property line. Never mind the possible ass whooping for all of the disrespect he and his mistress have both shown me.
Hmmmm, do they all say stupid stuff and try to provoke a response.
My response: crickets.
And each time after this weekend that he needs to come get anything I will inform him again in writing that he is not to bring her on my property.
Fortunately, I now will have time to pack his stuff up that he doesn’t get this weekend and put it in boxes. I will politely put it on the curb for any future visits. I will also make it a point to not be there when he comes for his stuff.
I cannot believe this PA crap used to get to me before.
Does anybody know the legal timeframe before his crap is considered abandoned so I can donate it to Good will or toss in the trash?