I'm mind effing him. I will not waste my time doing documents and paying attorneys for something that has to be a law. I think I will ask my attorney though what the abandonment laws are in our county. I will keep letting him think I'm that poor, sad, broken women he left a few weeks ago.
Let him keep thinking that he can inconvenience me. LOL
I will shred his DD 214, his SSN card, his birth certificate, but not a second sooner than when it is legal.
It now amuses me how he thinks he is still holding the strings! He doesn't yet realize I've always had the power. The power to detach, to not give an eff, the power to know my own self worth. He is just too ridiculous!
And, Shrek can have his selfish ass. I'm mind effing her too. Let her think she won "the prize". In the end, he will do the same thing to her, and she will lose. She is nowhere near as strong as I am. Point in case, he's dumped her twice already to come back to wifey. This is her third time taking him back. She put up with calling him only when he "allowed" her too for 3 YEARS so he wouldn't get caught.
He himself told me drunk one time that she isn't that bright and she isn't attractive. He finds her complete adoration entertaining. Again, her low self esteem.
Now, I'm only bothered by the amount of disrespect they both showed me and NOBODY does that.
I took him back once, not because I couldnt' walk away from him. I took him back because I thought he had true remorse and my religious convictions were that I needed to give him a chance. I gave it, he blew it, now he can deal with the ego implode when he thinks he is coming back again after he is done playing house with dumb dumb troll face.....errr meant oger face!
[This message edited by StillLivin at 11:55 AM, September 17th (Tuesday)]