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User Topic: It took me until 1pm to think abou the A.
cuppacoffee
♀ 39313
Member # 39313
Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think that's pretty good. Normally I wake up with it on my mind.

I thought that was pretty darn good.

When I remembered it, it was like "Oh I haven't thought about the A yet today."

I'll take that as a victory.


I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 361 | Registered: May 2013
Hope2B
♀ 40474
Member # 40474
Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's progress! Hooray for today!

For me, finding out less than a week ago that DDay of Feb 25 was all a lie, well, the A is in my every thought and breath unless I distract myself. Sometimes, it's all I can do to just inhale and exhale. I seem to have the never ending font of tears.

Congrats on your victory!


Me: early 60s
Him: 65 yrs old, LTA w/a pro$titute
Married since 1980, no children
DDay: Feb. 25, 2013
Trickle Truth Days: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)
His affair--says it was only 8 times 1x/mo, then found out it was 7 YEARS 2-3x/mo or maybe ever 4x/mo

Posts: 363 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: out west/west coast U.S.A.
kickboxer
♀ 39858
Member # 39858
Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! Awesome!

As for me...it's 1:15 here now...and I'm just feeling ready to put it aside for the day so I can put dinner together and prepare to focus on my children when they get home from school :(


BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 13 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere Out There
OldCow18
♀ 39670
Member # 39670
Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, that's amazing. How far out are you from d-day?


Me, BW forty something, DD & DS,
Married to WH (49) 11 years, together 16
D-Day 6.8.13

Posts: 620 | Registered: Jun 2013
Amber13
♀ 40505
Member # 40505
Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you! It's so hard isn't it. I have to risk seeing OW on school run so it hits me every morning and afternoon.

Posts: 63 | Registered: Aug 2013
cuppacoffee
♀ 39313
Member # 39313
Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are about 4 months out. I was just too busy to think about skankface I suppose.

Two days ago it was all I could think about.

But I'm enjoying today!


I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 361 | Registered: May 2013
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