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User Topic: Random Thought
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Just a random thought that tickled my fancy for all of us in limbo with a cake eater who have received the ILYBINILWY speech: when the WH has a d-day with the OW (she gives him an ultimatum), is this what he says to her?

"I'm in love with you but I don't love you" (at least not enough to end my marriage, lose the respect of my children, lose 50%+ of my current assets, lose 35% of my future assets to CS/SS).

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Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Early on after DDay my FWH did say this to me ILYBINILWY AND that he doesn't want to say ILY on days he doesn't mean it and that I should stop saying it - how could I he said say it when I am mad at him (before I found about A). He said this to his friend and his friend (a friend of the marriage), without knowing all the details (bless his heart!), said to him: "I tell my wife ILY every day even if I don't mean it because I want to love her. Doing this makes me love her and reminds me why I lover her."

Tells you the difference between a man who knows marriage is hard work vs someone who's looking to escape.

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

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