"Your secrets keep you sick"
Being your BF isn''t a life sentence he''s locked into, so he can choose to believe you...or not...and stay with you, or not.
Has BBF asked you to take a poly? If so, do it. Have BBF write up a series of yes/no questions and go. Too much room for error? Really? Or, is there something you''re still holding back?
[This message edited by 20WrongsVs1 at 7:34 AM, September 18th, 2013 (Wednesday)]
I was there for 30-45 mins and left.
We chatted online and talked about sexual preferences.
For my BS, it doesn't matter. The intent and betrayal is there.
Even aside from availability (Europe) and reliability - the results of a poly don't alter or lessen the basic problem of lies and betrayal.
Over time, his apprehension and suspicion lessened. The changes I made, getting to know myself, taking on life? He saw those. I think it helped.
edited for clarity
[This message edited by leftoolate at 1:23 AM, September 21st (Saturday)]