I have have not read the book, but I have found a few sample chapters and I think that the title is horrible.
Just by the few chapters i read, it is very clear that Surrendering is not the proper term for what this book is preaching. I also think that surrender has such a negitive conotation that may not be good to try and get your WW to read it.
If this book was called something like how to live in balance. How to work in harmony with your husband. The beauty of a ligher load.
The books seems to focus on the fact that woman seem to see control as power, and that having power makes us less vulerable and manipulated. To give up control and power, we lend ourselves to be used, abused, and otherwise unappreciated - therefore, we tend to lean towards controling rather then a more balanced form of a relationship.
Have you read it yet?
I think i may see if i can find a copy at a library.