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imagoodwitch posted 9/18/2013 10:46 AM

Can you help me figure out a nice way to tell someone to piss the f**k off and shut the f**k up?

Really struggling today.

It's a don't poke the bear kind of day, and she keeps poking the bear because she thinks it's funny.

TIA

lieshurt posted 9/18/2013 10:50 AM

I'm the last person to give this type of advice

MovingUpward posted 9/18/2013 10:50 AM

If you are the bear in question then go with "Not today" and then if it doesn't work a "piss the f**k off and shut the f**k up"

If the bear is someone else, then try redirection. Pull them aside and let them know.

imagoodwitch posted 9/18/2013 10:54 AM

I am the bear today, on the bright side, I realize that I am the bear and have given fair warning.

This person thinks it's fun to poke the bear.

lynnm1947 posted 9/18/2013 10:57 AM

"Piss the f**k off and shut the f**k up" sounds like the best approach. Said with a wide disingenuous smile. And followed by, "Please."

Sad in AZ posted 9/18/2013 12:16 PM

You're a bear; bite her head off and be done with it (and her!)

welcome14 posted 9/18/2013 12:46 PM

If you wear glasses, a no fail move is to lower your head slightly and peer wordlessly over the top of your glasses until said bear poker slinks away. Works like a charm. Works on my kids also....added bonus.

edited typos

[This message edited by welcome14 at 12:47 PM, September 18th (Wednesday)]

whyohwhyohwhy posted 9/18/2013 13:37 PM

Diplomacy is telling someone to go to hell in such a way that they look forward to the trip!

Good luck!

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