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User Topic: help with interpersonal skills
imagoodwitch
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Member # 23375
Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you help me figure out a nice way to tell someone to piss the f**k off and shut the f**k up?

Really struggling today.

It's a don't poke the bear kind of day, and she keeps poking the bear because she thinks it's funny.

TIA


A head full of fears has no space for dreams.

Posts: 6311 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm the last person to give this type of advice


A wise woman once said "fuck this shit" and she lived happily ever after.

Posts: 15420 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you are the bear in question then go with "Not today" and then if it doesn't work a "piss the f**k off and shut the f**k up"

If the bear is someone else, then try redirection. Pull them aside and let them know.


Posts: 54405 | Registered: Jun 2007
imagoodwitch
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Member # 23375
Default  Posted: 10:54 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am the bear today, on the bright side, I realize that I am the bear and have given fair warning.

This person thinks it's fun to poke the bear.


A head full of fears has no space for dreams.

Posts: 6311 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Piss the f**k off and shut the f**k up" sounds like the best approach. Said with a wide disingenuous smile. And followed by, "Please."


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 8672 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're a bear; bite her head off and be done with it (and her!)


You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011


Posts: 24560 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Southern New Mexico
welcome14
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Member # 26741
Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you wear glasses, a no fail move is to lower your head slightly and peer wordlessly over the top of your glasses until said bear poker slinks away. Works like a charm. Works on my kids also....added bonus.

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[This message edited by welcome14 at 12:47 PM, September 18th (Wednesday)]


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


Posts: 1476 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
whyohwhyohwhy
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Member # 17890
Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Diplomacy is telling someone to go to hell in such a way that they look forward to the trip!

Good luck!


Life goes on.

Me:50 BS
Him: X, 54 PA SA NPD?
2 kids; DD17, DD11 divorced


Posts: 1068 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: east coast
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