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Have been feeling like a doormat the last few days. My H is away for 4 days on business - limited communication - a couple of short calls and both these and 2 line mail ended with "love you". It's been a roller coaster day with lots of sad emotions as I spend day with my son. I wrote a short mail saying all things I'm grateful for in my life at moment and basically told him that some things have been less great including the basic lack of effort of someone who claims they aren't to save their marriage after pretty vile behavior - said "love you" doesn't quite cut it. No word so have decided am turning phone off having early bath and DvD and being not contactable....I deserve a lot better than this....He wants to fight to stay let him actually do something for a change

Good for you. Keep your head up and fight to be treated with honesty and integrity.

If he truly wants to make this work, he needs to do ANYTHING that you need him to and that is to show A LOT of effort.

Take care of you and your son.

Good luck.