Yes! It is normal.
Again, you do not need to make any decisions just yet.
I've heard give it 6 months but I say longer - at least a year.
Within this year you figure out what YOU want/need.
If you have a remorseful WH it will be easier and you will know if R is possible.
Make sure the A is in fact over. A lot of times, after dday the A will go underground. Be vigilant.
Take care of YOU.
Hugs. It does get easier - whatever the outcome.