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Newest Member: ChrissyMc (61787)

User Topic: Coping
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been a single mom since the day he left 3 years ago. Now w/ the divorce looming I will really be single. I haven't worn my ring in 3 years but still some part of me does feel married. How do you break free from those feelings and start again? BTW, I have no time for myself and I realize that because I have 2 young kids and not a lot of help. I put that as my 1st job and the job that pays the bills my 2nd. I don't know how to wrap around my head of being officially single. Obivously, he had no problem with that.......ugh.

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Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He has no problem with it because he left you with the responsibilities of raising kids. I think that as the kids get older and you start to find time the feeling of being single will emerge, but personally I think it still feels much different than before I had gotten married and had kids. For like you, my kids are my #1 job.

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