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User Topic: I can't say anything nice, so I'm saying it here..
♀ 38377
Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


If you say you will take care of Boy Scouts, fucking do it already. If he misses this camping trip coming up because you always wait until the last minute to do things and only haven slow-ass internet your brother hacked for you and no printer, heads will fucking roll. I'm not your fucking secretary. Either take responsibility for the things we agree you will handle or just don't and I will handle it.

And you need to pay me some fucking child support. I don't need your sob stories about your money situation when you are spending an exorbitant about of money on your fucking slut, whorebag, lower than dirt, abusive mistress. Supporting your children SHOULD COME FIRST, not only if you have some money left over. You average about 6 overnights a month now, so you have to help me support the kids!!

And your email saying, "Don't cry Butterfly. It's not your fault you aren't good enough to find someone to love you," is totally fucking NONE OF YOUR GODDAMNED BUSINESS. I won't tell you if I have someone, and I won't tell you if I don't. Again, NONE OF YOUR GODDAMNED BUSINESS. I realize you were trying to bait me into revealing to you my dating situation, but too bad, so sad. You don't deserve my feelings or any information about my personal life unless it affects the kids. And yeah, I will give you the courtesy of letting you know when I plan to introduce the kids to my significant other. Which is the complete opposite of what you did you fucking horrible piece of shit, bringing that homewrecking slut around my kids for months, maybe years, before I have ever even heard of the bitch. And then you had the damn nerve to force the kids to keep it a secret?? FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FUCK OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Rot in hell you slimy piece of shit.

xBW~ 37
Two DS~ 9 and 13

Posts: 3120 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WHEE! That's right, Butterfly! Let's get some marshmallows on sticks & toast 'em, 'cuz this girl is on FIRE!!!

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
♀ 34697
Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BG, that was an amazingly epic rant.

FTG just doesn't do it justice...


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jan 2012
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a collosal piece of shit. On the deadbeat front and on the goading front.

What a joke. It would not be at all hard to find a deadbeat dad, cheating, lying, scumbag user piece of shit if that's what you were after.

BTDT. I'm aiming higher next time, you slimy fuckwit.

Crickets all the way. FACT: If life was so fucking rosy for him he would not be goading you.

No ego kibbles for him.

Let him gorge himself on crickets.

I hope you have your L onto this. CS isn't optional. Don't even discuss it with him again - send out the dogs, like yesterday. Dude needs a wake up call and a legal 2x4 upside the head.

What is WRONG with these people?

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 6008 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
♀ 33735
Member # 33735
Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A.W.E.S.O.M.E. rant!!!!

M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
♀ 32962
Member # 32962
Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I smell somebody's biscuits burning!

-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004

Posts: 1025 | Registered: Aug 2011
♀ 35059
Member # 35059
Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best. Rant. Ever.

Made my morning!

He is a moron. He lost you!! He lost a clever, confident, amazing partner.

Rock on sister-girl!!

Just trust yourself, then you will know how to live.
~ Goethe

Posts: 786 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: the south
♀ 40274
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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I enjoyed it. Awesome.

They still want you to be their "mommy" when it comes to the kids. What a f**ing Moron. They are all the same.

Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

Posts: 446 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
♀ 40359
Member # 40359
Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this! Good for you!

XWH left 6/2013
DDay 8/19/2013
Divorce final 7/14/2014
False reconciliation 6/15-8/15
DDay 2 8/29/15

Posts: 178 | Registered: Aug 2013
♀ 33062
Member # 33062
Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome rant! Of course I'm sorry you have to deal with that f'ing pos worthless sorry excuse of a dad and human being. I'm right there with you!
Please tell me he really didn't send you an email saying that? Please?!
I would seriously have to hold back a throat punch! The nerve!
Mine sent me a guideline that I was to follow before I dated.....lmfao!
Who the hell do these narcissists think they are!

Posts: 662 | Registered: Aug 2011
♀ 31468
Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 11:19 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ButterflyGirl rocks! Don't ever forget that lady! FTSTBXPOS!
Great and well deserved rant!

Me: BW-46
Him: XWH-46

Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

Posts: 5287 | Registered: Mar 2011
♀ 36060
Member # 36060
Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't bother discussing the child support issue with him. Do you have a support order? If he hasn't met his obligations, call your local CS enforcement agency and get the ball rolling.

BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism

Posts: 751 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
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