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ButterflyGirl (original poster member #38377) posted at 3:36 AM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
Dear STBX PIECE OF SHIT,
If you say you will take care of Boy Scouts, fucking do it already. If he misses this camping trip coming up because you always wait until the last minute to do things and only haven slow-ass internet your brother hacked for you and no printer, heads will fucking roll. I'm not your fucking secretary. Either take responsibility for the things we agree you will handle or just don't and I will handle it.
And you need to pay me some fucking child support. I don't need your sob stories about your money situation when you are spending an exorbitant about of money on your fucking slut, whorebag, lower than dirt, abusive mistress. Supporting your children SHOULD COME FIRST, not only if you have some money left over. You average about 6 overnights a month now, so you have to help me support the kids!!
And your email saying, "Don't cry Butterfly. It's not your fault you aren't good enough to find someone to love you," is totally fucking NONE OF YOUR GODDAMNED BUSINESS. I won't tell you if I have someone, and I won't tell you if I don't. Again, NONE OF YOUR GODDAMNED BUSINESS. I realize you were trying to bait me into revealing to you my dating situation, but too bad, so sad. You don't deserve my feelings or any information about my personal life unless it affects the kids. And yeah, I will give you the courtesy of letting you know when I plan to introduce the kids to my significant other. Which is the complete opposite of what you did you fucking horrible piece of shit, bringing that homewrecking slut around my kids for months, maybe years, before I have ever even heard of the bitch. And then you had the damn nerve to force the kids to keep it a secret?? FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FUCK OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Rot in hell you slimy piece of shit.
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 3:43 AM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
WHEE! That's right, Butterfly! Let's get some marshmallows on sticks & toast 'em, 'cuz this girl is on FIRE!!!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 3:56 AM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
BG, that was an amazingly epic rant.
FTG just doesn't do it justice...
...so...
FUCKTHATMOTHERFUCKINGDOUCHEBAGPIECEOFSHITGUY
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 4:19 AM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
What a collosal piece of shit. On the deadbeat front and on the goading front.
What a joke. It would not be at all hard to find a deadbeat dad, cheating, lying, scumbag user piece of shit if that's what you were after.
BTDT. I'm aiming higher next time, you slimy fuckwit.
Crickets all the way. FACT: If life was so fucking rosy for him he would not be goading you.
No ego kibbles for him.
Let him gorge himself on crickets.
I hope you have your L onto this. CS isn't optional. Don't even discuss it with him again - send out the dogs, like yesterday. Dude needs a wake up call and a legal 2x4 upside the head.
What is WRONG with these people?
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
macakipa ( member #33735) posted at 1:33 PM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."
debbysbaby ( member #32962) posted at 2:33 PM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
I smell somebody's biscuits burning!
-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004
self-rescuer ( member #35059) posted at 2:42 PM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
Best. Rant. Ever.
Made my morning!
He is a moron. He lost you!! He lost a clever, confident, amazing partner.
Rock on sister-girl!!
How are you tending to the the emerging story of your life?
~ Carol Hegedus
sleepless34 ( member #40274) posted at 3:59 PM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
I enjoyed it. Awesome.
They still want you to be their "mommy" when it comes to the kids. What a f**ing Moron. They are all the same.
Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...
Eyeofthetiger ( member #40359) posted at 2:05 AM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
XWH left 6/2013
DDay 8/19/2013
Divorce final 7/14/2014
False reconciliation 6/15-8/15
DDay 2 8/29/15
Strongmama ( member #33062) posted at 3:17 AM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
Awesome rant! Of course I'm sorry you have to deal with that f'ing pos worthless sorry excuse of a dad and human being. I'm right there with you!
Please tell me he really didn't send you an email saying that? Please?!
I would seriously have to hold back a throat punch! The nerve!
Mine sent me a guideline that I was to follow before I dated.....lmfao!
Who the hell do these narcissists think they are! 
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 5:19 AM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
ButterflyGirl rocks! Don't ever forget that lady! FTSTBXPOS!
Great and well deserved rant! 
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
roughroadahead ( member #36060) posted at 2:53 PM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
Don't bother discussing the child support issue with him. Do you have a support order? If he hasn't met his obligations, call your local CS enforcement agency and get the ball rolling.
BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism
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