did my exloveofmylife say he loved me,
ask me to marry him
have 3 kids with me
all while hiding a secret life that included hitting on women in bars and initiating sex with his brother's girlfriend?
why did he play house and happy family with me while having sex with our friends?
why did he lie every time he opened his mouth?
I ask because I am struggling
I would never lie to someone I love
I would never want to be married to someone if I was interested in other people and acting on it on the sly
why did he want to keep me in the dark for so many years rather than letting me know I must not be it for him because he is still actively seeking sex with other women?
How sad for him
please help me understand
I thought I had married the perfect man
[This message edited by luvedmypbear at 12:12 PM, September 19th (Thursday)]