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User Topic: Need the men's help!
hurtininHouston
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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am 5 mos out. Found my wife Texting another man for the last five months And meeting up with him one night. She had planned to meet in the second time but I interrupted that. She has done NC & everything else needed. Shows remorse and i see her own hurt. We are working on it. We have had some good times & the expected bad ones. I am bitter, hurt, sad & angry. I still compare myself to him. Was he bigger, better, more manly.....whateve. It was mainly all emotional for her. She wanted attention! I guess what i am asking for is how. How do i finally acheive acceptance? I have read some positive stories. I think that is what i am needing, wanting.....
I dont know. I love her, i am jyst so incredulous that she would fo that to me/ us!! I need some male support maybe. Some been there done that. How do i let it go....how do i get him out of my head. Im tired of comparing! Thanks for any insight. Hope there aren't too many typos as i am on my phone.
Thx
H

Posts: 60 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Houston
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi hurtinHouston,

There is a thread for Betrayed Men in the I Can Relate Forum. I'm sure you can find the support you are looking for in there .

AN


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38670 | Registered: Sep 2007
Skan
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you really want men to talk to, I would suggest that you go to the "I Can Relate" forum and search for the Betrayed Men thread. It's quite active and there are some really great guys there.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 5096 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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