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User Topic: Need the men's help!
hurtininHouston
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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am 5 mos out. Found my wife Texting another man for the last five months And meeting up with him one night. She had planned to meet in the second time but I interrupted that. She has done NC & everything else needed. Shows remorse and i see her own hurt. We are working on it. We have had some good times & the expected bad ones. I am bitter, hurt, sad & angry. I still compare myself to him. Was he bigger, better, more manly.....whateve. It was mainly all emotional for her. She wanted attention! I guess what i am asking for is how. How do i finally acheive acceptance? I have read some positive stories. I think that is what i am needing, wanting.....
I dont know. I love her, i am jyst so incredulous that she would fo that to me/ us!! I need some male support maybe. Some been there done that. How do i let it go....how do i get him out of my head. Im tired of comparing! Thanks for any insight. Hope there aren't too many typos as i am on my phone.
Thx
H

Posts: 71 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Houston
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi hurtinHouston,

There is a thread for Betrayed Men in the I Can Relate Forum. I'm sure you can find the support you are looking for in there .

AN


“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you really want men to talk to, I would suggest that you go to the "I Can Relate" forum and search for the Betrayed Men thread. It's quite active and there are some really great guys there.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 9113 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown

Posts: 54915 | Registered: Sep 2007
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