I am trying so hard right now not to get in my car and verify where my H is. It seems all week he had been up to something . Tonight he texts me to see if I want to do something. I saw the text am hour after sent and texted back that sounded fine but we would have to take our younger ones with us. He texted me back saying he forgot about that. One hour later he says forget about it then. After that, another hour later I get a text saying he has to stay late at work to do some computer stuff! Wtf! Now he has to stay late? And it took him a whole hour to tell to forget about tonite? I feel like he just went ahead and set something else up and pretends to be at work .
I have find my iPhone but when he is at work or certain places he frequents like the store when he goes in his location stays fixed. I experimented today and sent my iPhone with a friend to the store and when I tracked it I could pretty much always see what part of the store she was in. I think somehow my husband must have an app to fix his location regardless uf he is in that place or not. I don't know. I get so paranoid about this and I feel like he is getting a thrill with playing cat and mouse with me.
Anyway if I left to check , my kids would get worried and I'm in the middle of work . It really is not good for me to go check it out but it is driving me nuts. It will make me behind in work etc.
So I'm coming here because you all know what it feels like to want to hunt them down to see if they're lying.
Had 2 other incidents this week that just make it worse. Started counseling today though and she said I am not doing good and experiencing a lot of trauma and is worried for me. Specializes in trauma , affairs, and is csat for addicts and spouses of. Hope that will be another lifeline for me to keep my head above water so to speak.