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homewrecked2011 posted 9/20/2013 09:29 AM

Since this forum is for divorce/separation, I wanted to let all of you in on the most epic separation. I am hoping someone looking for separation advice will see this... It is posted by Karmita on the General forum. The heading is: Update on he doesn't know that I know.

I am hoping that anyone considering separation reads her post first. Her sister helped her hold it all together until she had all the evidence she needed.

Enjoy!

thenon-goddess posted 9/20/2013 12:08 PM

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[This message edited by thenon-goddess at 12:54 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)]

SisterMilkshake posted 9/20/2013 12:40 PM

Yesh, thenon-goddess, I agree. I have been sucked in before. I did give her a hug, though, just in case.

sparkysable posted 9/20/2013 12:56 PM

I didn't think it was that unbelievably epic.

Am I that naive?

[This message edited by sparkysable at 12:56 PM, September 20th (Friday)]

SisterMilkshake posted 9/20/2013 13:00 PM

IDK, sparky, but shopping in a sex store with the OW and buying a huge butt plug is pretty amazing.

And, then the day of the big party, smearing shit on the butt plug? I guess it could be considered epic.

homewrecked2011 posted 9/20/2013 13:06 PM

I thought it was epic because the man walks into an empty apt with pages of messages - evidence of the affair.

Plus, she was able to keep her wits about her while with the ow...something I was not able to do once I found out...

The non-goddess might be right, however....

thenon-goddess posted 9/20/2013 14:24 PM

I didn't think it was that unbelievably epic.
Am I that naive?

Yeah, the butt plug shopping with the OW was what put it into epic territory for me! I tend to be skeptical because I have been burned several times on message boards (I belonged to a lot of pregnancy/childbirth/toddler boards when I was younger), but who knows - I'm sure stranger/more epic things have happened!

HeartStings posted 9/20/2013 16:54 PM

Sounds a little contrived to me (and juvenile), but maybe I'm skeptical about everything these days.

mchercheur posted 9/20/2013 19:55 PM

I would love to believe that story too--------but nothing has made me laugh so hard as that thread, in a long while.

sparkysable posted 9/22/2013 07:36 AM

I will agree with all of you...keeping the secret, moving all of his shit out, putting up a sign and balloons so he thought he was walking into his own surprise party...I could see that. I kept a the secret and collected evidence for 3 weeks, put all his shit into a storage unit and changed the locks, so that part I could see.

The shopping at the sex shop with OW...yeah, I could see that being a bit over the top. She had me until that point. Maybe it really happened, maybe it didn't. I'm pretty skeptical.

However, that thread had me laughing.

PricklePatch posted 9/22/2013 07:50 AM

My post won't be epic, but it is how I feel. I personally feel this thread has become sad and unfortunate. If this were my story, I would never post here again. I would see the lack of belief and just disappear. I ask for a safe place to come for support and this is what I get. I realize I am not one of the frequent posters, I have a hard time writing and this is forum just became less safe for me. I find this thread incredibly sad.

[This message edited by PricklePatch at 7:52 AM, September 22nd (Sunday)]

Deeply Scared posted 9/22/2013 08:50 AM

homewrecked2011...

Starting a thread to single out a brand new member is very rude and hurtful.

I can only imagine how I would feel if I were pointed out and doubted on a site that was built for support.

The next time you have questions about a members authenticity, please come to a moderator instead.

Thank you.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 8:56 AM, September 22nd (Sunday)]

thenon-goddess posted 9/22/2013 12:53 PM

I apologize, I was the first one to express my doubt. I will edit my post accordingly -