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leapoffaith86 posted 9/20/2013 12:36 PM

I just found out; now that I read some stories, it wasn't that bad, I guess. It all started with the HW telling him how handsome he was, he played along until it was out of control. They only saw each other twice, they just kissed and talked (yes I believe it),and I do believe he's genuinely sorry, I'm willing to give him another chance. The thing is, I feel so depressed, my baby is 2 weeks old, and if I haven't killed myself it's because of him. Before this relationship, I was with an abusive man, and now WS says the last time he saw me this sad was at that time. I haven't slept since DDay, the little I've slept is when he's with me. He suggested therapy and we were already there Wed; she said we both looked very much in love and we didn't really need therapy together, HE needed it, and she just wanted to see if I'm ok. Well Im not, I don't want to spy on him, or anything like that, I already stopped venting about it, I just need to feel safe, valuable and happy again.

soconfusednow posted 9/20/2013 12:47 PM

if I haven't killed myself it's because of him. Before this relationship, I was with an abusive man, and now WS says the last time he saw me this sad was at that time.

The combination of a new baby, all you've been through, & the way your feeling I hope your seeking help. I'm not big on meds, but possibly antidepressants?

He suggested therapy and we were already there Wed; she said we both looked very much in love and we didn't really need therapy together, HE needed it, and she just wanted to see if I'm ok.
Get a new therapist! You probably could use someone as much as he needs it.

[This message edited by soconfusednow at 12:49 PM, September 20th (Friday)]

LosferWords posted 9/20/2013 12:58 PM

Hello, and welcome to SI, leapoffaith86.

Sorry for the circumstances that brought you here, but I'm glad you found us.

I agree with soconfusednow, perhaps it would be wise into looking into another therapist. People can look happy on the outside, but it's hard to tell what they are going through internally without scratching through the surface. That's what a good IC (individual counselor) is all about.

Stick around here and keep posting. You'll find a great deal of support and advice here from so many people who have been through this and who are also currently going through this.

Take care.

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