Me too.......i have parasite WH blocked in my phone. Hadnt checked for 2 weeks and looked the other night.
There was a nice message saying just want to say hello and hope wer well and wants to catch up with our our son this weekend.
Our son who is 18 doesnt want to speak to him due to what he has done to me and also after i kicked him out 3 months ago he looked up OW fed her bs and they now hanging out together AGAIN.
Everything is my fault. He did nothing wrong. I kicked him out for no reason apparently. He was upset and lonely and me kicking him out afyer no remorse and false r was unfair....according to him.
Whats unfair? Running back to her, shrugging all responsibilities. Leaving me to sell the house, empty it out, getting rid of all,of his shit and living on a dime?
He has a fulltime job, low rent,ma bed buddy, fancy ute, harley.......etc etc
I am so hurt and angry and he says he is broke and wants 50%.
Just disgarded me, us. Our son has autism and is so confused. Saw the physical abuse, heard it all.
But WH maintains its all my fault.
So i responded to his text with a phone call. Couldnt help myself.....off loaded, gave him a mouthful....
He calls me a filthy name and hangs up......thats ok, i did feel better but also saw that he is delusional, he will always only see it the fucked way that he see's it. He has made his bed.
He needs to grow up. The house settles this tuesday and he thinks he will be on easy street financially but he is in for a shock.
He is NPD amongst other things so i probably shouldnt have called him but its done now.
I did send one last message to never contact me ever again. I wont check my blocker anymore and when settlement is done and i dont need his texts for anything i will change my number. Because my son is 18 i dont have the custody issue which must be so very difficult for you with all this crap.
So on that note dont beat yourself up about broken nc......its hard to control sometimes but lets get back on the nc train and relax a little and read a good book.
Misery loves company and we have better things to do.......!
Keep moving forward little by little.