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Topic: Mow's BS Messaged me

crazyblindsided
♀ 35215
Member # 35215

Posted: 3:43 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013

Via FB

and inappropriately I might add. He said 3 words "I'd hit that" meaning he would have sex with me.

Um...Really? Like am I supposed to be turned on by this or something?

I will be blocking, letting WH know, and deleting the message. Guess we should send a NC out too.

I just cannot believe people

BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08 OW1, 5/09 OW1, 3/30/12 OW2
Final Dday 7/11/14 Same OW2

Posts: 2295 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California

Simple
♀ 18814
Member # 18814

Posted: 3:46 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013

MOW BS is probably in a lashing out phase. Just ignore and move on is my suggestion.

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008

scared&stronger
♀ 15942
Member # 15942

Posted: 4:54 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013

Or it isn't him. It is her instead.

WS 45
BS 43

Met when we were 17 and 15. Together since 1983, married since 1985. Two kids, B21, G15.

d-day 4-3-07

Life has a way of making us get our panties in a wad.....I refuse to wear panties ever again.

Posts: 3988 | Registered: Aug 2007

crazyblindsided
♀ 35215
Member # 35215

Posted: 5:06 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013

Or it isn't him. It is her instead.

I know I thought this too!

BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08 OW1, 5/09 OW1, 3/30/12 OW2
Final Dday 7/11/14 Same OW2

Posts: 2295 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California

losingmyground
♀ 36070
Member # 36070

Posted: 9:22 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013

I have been there. Except he showed up at my work told me he caught her again. Before he left he propositioned me. It was really uncomfortable. I told no, I would never cheat on anyone and to tell his wife I said hi. He asked if I was going to tell my husband that he was there and I said yes. It was left at that. Then a few days ago I got a message that from him that they are seperating. Nothing since.

Married 13 yrs
3 kids 13, 10 & 1
I'm 34
FWH 37
Affair lasted 6 months
Ended 09/2011
Found out 06/2012
My father died during the affair
In the middle of Reconcilliation

Posts: 291 | Registered: Jul 2012

Topic Posts: 5

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