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User Topic: Mow's BS Messaged me
crazyblindsided
♀ 35215
Member # 35215
Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Via FB

and inappropriately I might add. He said 3 words "I'd hit that" meaning he would have sex with me.

Um...Really? Like am I supposed to be turned on by this or something?

I will be blocking, letting WH know, and deleting the message. Guess we should send a NC out too.

I just cannot believe people


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
Simple
♀ 18814
Member # 18814
Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MOW BS is probably in a lashing out phase. Just ignore and move on is my suggestion.


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
scared&stronger
♀ 15942
Member # 15942
Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Or it isn't him. It is her instead.


WS 45
BS 43

Met when we were 17 and 15. Together since 1983, married since 1985. Two kids, B21, G15.

d-day 4-3-07

Life has a way of making us get our panties in a wad.....I refuse to wear panties ever again.


Posts: 3984 | Registered: Aug 2007
crazyblindsided
♀ 35215
Member # 35215
Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Or it isn't him. It is her instead.

I know I thought this too!


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
losingmyground
♀ 36070
Member # 36070
Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been there. Except he showed up at my work told me he caught her again. Before he left he propositioned me. It was really uncomfortable. I told no, I would never cheat on anyone and to tell his wife I said hi. He asked if I was going to tell my husband that he was there and I said yes. It was left at that. Then a few days ago I got a message that from him that they are seperating. Nothing since.


Married 13 yrs
3 kids 13, 10 & 1
I'm 34
FWH 37
Affair lasted 6 months
Ended 09/2011
Found out 06/2012
My father died during the affair
In the middle of Reconcilliation

Posts: 291 | Registered: Jul 2012
Topic Posts: 5

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