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Topic: My coworker is a jerk
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hurtbs
♀ 10866
Member # 10866 |  Posted: 4:05 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013 |     |
So I'm in a new position at a new school. Today, one of my colleagues decided to reem me out in front of students and other teachers over an administrative decision that was not even mine - in fact, he knew it wasn't mine and that I agreed with him.
In front of STUDENTS! I've seen him pull this bullshit before with much higher ups than me. He is just a jerk.
Ugghhh.. Tonight I'm staying in and watching movies. Tomorrow, watching a football game with a girlfriend and ordering pizza.
Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012
"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid
Posts: 15452 | Registered: Jun 2006 |
click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209 |  Posted: 4:12 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013 | |
ugh sorry hurt! hope he gets reemed back to see how it feels.
Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25649 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California |
jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531 | | Posted: 6:15 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013 | |
Yep... Got one of those at my school too.
Not fun... sorry.
Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25026 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida |
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622 | | Posted: 2:09 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013 | |
(((hugs)))
That sucks. I am sorry that happened to you.
Small comfort? The kids who witnessed it have been on the receiving end of verbal attacks themselves. They are watching you to see how you handled it, this I promise. We always tell kids to walk away, tell an adult, not to throw a punch or push... So you just had a teachable moment!!
I hope your team wins today. 
Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Posts: 6052 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place |
hurtbs
♀ 10866
Member # 10866 | | Posted: 4:16 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013 | |
He actually strikes me as someone that has a huge issue with authority so he probably doesn't do this with his students. I also suspect he has an issue with women.
Completely unimpressed with him 
Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012
"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid
Posts: 15452 | Registered: Jun 2006 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 8:35 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013 | |
((((hurtbs)))) Sorry he's such a jerk.
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28330 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
Random thoughts
♀ 2959
Member # 2959 | | Posted: 9:44 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013 | |
Was he written up for being a suckazz?
Hate bullies.
Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.
FWW
Posts: 1647 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Some where in New Jersey |
JKL Vikings
♂ 32094
Member # 32094 | | Posted: 10:50 AM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
(((hurtbs)))
I'm so sorry. This colleague of yours is a real d---head.
It is TOTALLY unprofessional to come down on you
A. Over something that was not even in your control
B. In front of students
Someone who gets off on doing that to someone is really insecure and they are to be pitied. Yes, we feel like kicking them in the a--, but in the end they are to be pitied.
Her- Alpha Female 40
Me-FWH 42
Married since '02, together since 2000
D-day 2/10/2009
3 sons- J- born Oct 2001
K- born Sept. 2005
L- born Apr. 2008
We ALL have issues. It's how we deal with them that makes the difference
Posts: 539 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Dallas, TX |
Undefinabl3
♀ 36883
Member # 36883 | | Posted: 11:47 AM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
while i am not a teacher, I had a co-worker do this to me once infront of the whole office.
The first time I was in absolute shock because I have always thought that repremands were done behind a closed door for professionalism sake.
The next time that he started in on me I turned it back around on him and explained that I was a grown woman in a professional job, and if he can't handle me in a professional manner then I was going to treat him the same as he treated me. The rest of the office pretty much agreed and it was the last time he ever went after anyone in front of the office.
He also didn't last long after that.
Stupid bullies.
Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
Posts: 1915 | Registered: Sep 2012 |
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