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Topic: Stopped by

sunsetslost
♂ 39885
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Posted: 10:15 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013

My STBX stopped by the house tonight. With a friend (female, not the AP). She wanted to show off her house before it sells. She was shit faced, we hugged awkwardly and i was polite and accommodating. Small talk. Gave them each a beer. She held her cat for a while. I am so proud of myself. No regrets. No sympathy. I again offered her the house for what we owe. If I can walk away from this nightmare without a dime I will at least have peace.

Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 793 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.

Melody3
♀ 33591
Member # 33591

Posted: 11:11 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013

Good for you

BS (me): 38
WH: 38
Separated: 9/2/2010
DDay: 10/2010 PA with OW. Married 13 yrs, Together 20
Two kids, 9 (daughter) & 4 1/2(son)
Divorced 12/2013
EX buys a house. OW moves in approx. 10 min's away from kids and I with my Ex & her 4 chil

Posts: 810 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Midwest

jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528

Posted: 1:25 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013

(((sunsetlost)))

Posts: 38263 | Registered: Mar 2011

gma56
♀ 19595
Member # 19595

Posted: 3:00 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013

You did really well. Detachment is a blessing for us BSs still in pain from the betrayl.

Unfortunately, we do have to sometimes be cordial to them. Sending mojo she takes your house offer or it sells quickly.
Hugs, you're doing Ok!
Gma

[This message edited by gma56 at 3:35 PM, September 21st (Saturday)]

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20395 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..

nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226

Posted: 9:10 AM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013

((((sunsets)))) You have every right to be proud of yourself. Hope you are quickly able to be freed from the house one way or another.

You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön

Posts: 28266 | Registered: Aug 2011

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