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sunsetslost (original poster member #39885) posted at 4:15 AM on Saturday, September 21st, 2013
My STBX stopped by the house tonight. With a friend (female, not the AP). She wanted to show off her house before it sells. She was shit faced, we hugged awkwardly and i was polite and accommodating. Small talk. Gave them each a beer. She held her cat for a while. I am so proud of myself. No regrets. No sympathy. I again offered her the house for what we owe. If I can walk away from this nightmare without a dime I will at least have peace.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
Melody3 ( member #33591) posted at 5:11 AM on Saturday, September 21st, 2013
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:25 PM on Saturday, September 21st, 2013
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 9:00 PM on Saturday, September 21st, 2013
You did really well. Detachment is a blessing for us BSs still in pain from the betrayl.
Unfortunately, we do have to sometimes be cordial to them. 
Sending mojo she takes your house offer or it sells quickly. 
Hugs, you're doing Ok!
Gma
[This message edited by gma56 at 3:35 PM, September 21st (Saturday)]
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:10 PM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
((((sunsets)))) You have every right to be proud of yourself. Hope you are quickly able to be freed from the house one way or another.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
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