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Reconciliation :
We're Off to Paris & London

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 looking forward (original poster member #25238) posted at 4:27 PM on Saturday, September 21st, 2013

We leave tonight, overnight flight to Paris until the 29th, then the train through the Chunnel to London for a week.

It has been a roller coaster week, with my H's mental health at its lowest on Tuesday morning.....A lot of bad stuff went down....family rally here...now our youngest son (29) knows what we have been dealing with for almost 4 1/2 years....no longer a burden for our oldest son to bear alone.

We are trying so hard to get through this....

So, H and I would appreciate happy thoughts and positive mojo for us.

I'll try to post some pics.

I love my family.

I love my husband.

....and he's taking me to Paris .

I'd like to share the poem (again) that he wrote to me, just after DDay in April 2009:

To My Darling fWW

We are two trees

Whose branches reach out

And embrace each other,

And whose roots are

Deeply intertwined from

So many years together.

To cut down one tree

Would destroy the other.

Holding On Tighter

and

With Love Always,

BH

This is a poem H wrote for my 60th birthday:

Changes

I find myself now in the 'autumn' of my years.

Never would have guessed

it would be filled with so many tears.

The seasons of my life

Have passed so quickly by

My memories have blown away

Like leaves blown through the sky.

The ones I loved and counted on

Had changed their colours too

The garden that I lived in..

Was changed from green to blue.

My autumn's here, my days grow short.

Winter's not far away..

The life that I have left to live

Might be but just a day.

So as I watch the leaves turn red..

To orange and yellow too..

I ponder my life's journey

In my Autumn spent with you.

And when my winter's end arrives

And death's cold grip takes hold

I'll think of you and me and us

Our love story story has been told.

[This message edited by looking forward at 10:41 AM, September 21st (Saturday)]

Together more than 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)

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catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 4:31 PM on Saturday, September 21st, 2013

The poems are lovely!

Have a great time in Paris and London; we love both those cities. Be sure and put a lock on one of the bridges over the Seine; guarantees that your love will last forever!

Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled

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Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 4:32 PM on Saturday, September 21st, 2013

Positive mojo for you and your H...enjoy your trip!

Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again

Staying together for the kids

D-day 2010

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