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ccw82 posted 9/21/2013 17:47 PM

I'm feeling really optimistic because I finally started IC, and I had two great sessions this week! 1DH also started IC. Since I started, we haven't faught at all! I've been able to control my anger and overwhelming sadness, and turn it into positive, constructive conversations with 1DH.

I really hope this feeling lasts! I really want our marriage to work. I know that he has to work just as hard, but I'm hoping he's taking a step in the right direction with IC as well so that we both have the tools to heal!

RidingHealingRd posted 9/21/2013 19:03 PM

It is great that you found an IC that you are comfortable with. I was so fortunate to find one...without her wisdom I probably would have jumped ship in those early days. We are entering year 4 next month and life is so much better.

Continued success in IC and R.

iwillNOT posted 9/21/2013 19:29 PM

So glad you are having a good beginning with your IC! I hope it helps both you and your husband as you begin your work in healing.

AFrayedKnot posted 9/21/2013 19:48 PM

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