I'm sad to be posting here tonight, but I would like some feedback on a disturbing item I found tonight while cleaning.
I got my big long duster out to clean some vents up high and decided to clean off the top of the master bathroom cabinet. I do this probably once a year.
Surprise, surprise. I find hemorrhoid cream. That wasn't the big surprise
I found some Jo for Men, sexual attractant deodorant. It has pheromones in it. He hid it up top knowing I'd neeeever see it. I highly doubt that it's to turn me on as the things that I've come out and said turn me on, then buy him (cologne, aftershave) he NEVER wears.
Will confront him tomorrow, but expect denials.
In 2009 we had a short separation after I found out he was soliciting prostitutes on Craigslist. Nothing happened though. He was just curious.
I must be a fool.
Any advice? Men in the group what do you think?
And the thought of leaving his lying, probably cheating ass is not really an option as we have 3 kids 5 and under.