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sunsetslost (original poster member #39885) posted at 7:26 PM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
Going off the rail a bit today. Grief. Anxiety. I need some words of encouragement friends.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
hopeandchange ( member #33287) posted at 7:44 PM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
3 months post day-for me, this was my worst turmoil tough times followed but never as chaotic. Best wishes for a quick heal
H&C
BH (me, 50)
WS (her, 48)
Divorced!
3 wonderful teens
Heading for Happiness
Must Survive ( member #34533) posted at 8:06 PM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
((((Sunsetslost))))
Its ok SL, its hard and you don't believe it now, but it does get better. Time is that 4 letter word that is your friend.
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
soveryweary ( member #32265) posted at 8:10 PM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.
seekingright2013 ( member #37991) posted at 8:15 PM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
((((Sunsets)))
Do something good for YOU. Sorry it's a tough time right now.
“I tramp a perpetual journey.”
― Walt Whitman, Song of Myself
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 8:15 PM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
This, too, shall pass.....
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
sunsetslost (original poster member #39885) posted at 8:55 PM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
I'm having friends over after work for fish tacos and backyard beers. I'm getting a little better. Thank you all for what you do.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 8:59 PM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
Really try to stay in the moment with your friends, sunsets.
You've got to draw your strength from the highs so you can weather the lows. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 11:00 PM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
I'm sorry, Sunsets. It sucks.
One thing I did learn during those periods that stands out is, if you can find a way to not physically react to those emotions, like contacting WW during the emotional swings, it's a good thing.
FWIW, this was something I struggled with and it bit me.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 11:14 PM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
We've all been there friend. That damned rollercoaster.
The dips get fewer and farther apart, aren't anywhere near as intense and don't last anywhere near as long.
On those days I tried to remind myself that what I was feeling was normal and that I just had to get through this next hour, this next day. I made it to the other side, we all made it. You will too.
[This message edited by StrongButBroken at 6:27 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)]
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
sunsetslost (original poster member #39885) posted at 6:05 AM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013
My friends,
I had an absolutely delightful evening with friends. The fish tacos were great, the company even better. So at peace right now. Thank you all for your support. I want to make all of you fish tacos and hug each and everyone of you. Blessings, strength and hope to,you all.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
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