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User Topic: Off the rails
sunsetslost
♂ 39885
Member # 39885
Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Going off the rail a bit today. Grief. Anxiety. I need some words of encouragement friends.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 780 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
hopeandchange
♂ 33287
Member # 33287
Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

3 months post day-for me, this was my worst turmoil tough times followed but never as chaotic. Best wishes for a quick heal

H&C


BH (me, 50)
WS (her, 48)
Divorced!
3 wonderful teens
Heading for Happiness

Posts: 408 | Registered: Sep 2011
Must Survive
♀ 34533
Member # 34533
Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Sunsetslost))))

Its ok SL, its hard and you don't believe it now, but it does get better. Time is that 4 letter word that is your friend.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 817 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
soveryweary
♀ 32265
Member # 32265
Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Sunset))


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 628 | Registered: May 2011
seekingright2013
♀ 37991
Member # 37991
Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Sunsets)))

Do something good for YOU. Sorry it's a tough time right now.


BSO, 53
exWSO, who cares
DD: 11/18/12
DD2: 11/21/12
Kicked him to the curb 11/21/12
I tramp a perpetual journey.
― Walt Whitman, Song of Myself

Posts: 120 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Red State SE US
gonnabe2016
♀ 34823
Member # 34823
Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This, too, shall pass.....


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8183 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
sunsetslost
♂ 39885
Member # 39885
Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm having friends over after work for fish tacos and backyard beers. I'm getting a little better. Thank you all for what you do.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 780 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Really try to stay in the moment with your friends, sunsets.

You've got to draw your strength from the highs so you can weather the lows.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26189 | Registered: Aug 2011
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry, Sunsets. It sucks.

One thing I did learn during those periods that stands out is, if you can find a way to not physically react to those emotions, like contacting WW during the emotional swings, it's a good thing.

FWIW, this was something I struggled with and it bit me.


Ashland 13

You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2366 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We've all been there friend. That damned rollercoaster.

The dips get fewer and farther apart, aren't anywhere near as intense and don't last anywhere near as long.

On those days I tried to remind myself that what I was feeling was normal and that I just had to get through this next hour, this next day. I made it to the other side, we all made it. You will too.

[This message edited by StrongButBroken at 6:27 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)]


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5658 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
sunsetslost
♂ 39885
Member # 39885
Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My friends,

I had an absolutely delightful evening with friends. The fish tacos were great, the company even better. So at peace right now. Thank you all for your support. I want to make all of you fish tacos and hug each and everyone of you. Blessings, strength and hope to,you all.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 780 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
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