So not sure how to tell my story so here goes. 13 yrs ago I met my current boyfriend. We dated for 18mths and I realized that it was not a positive relationship the distance was not good and one huge factor made me realized that he was not their for me.
7 yrs after saying goodbye we started dating again less than a yr while pregnant with our first child I got a random email from a girl stating that I was not the only girl he has been sleeping with. This girl had been sleeping with him for a few years I knew of the girl according to him she was just a friend and they had nothing going on. I felt so betrayed and hurt. We were so happy we were about to have our first child together and everything was perfect we went back and forth on email for awhile he admitted to it and swore he would never do it again. I believed him and trusted his word.
Three years later after giving birth to our second child I get a Facebook friend request from someone with my boyfriend pic as the profile pic. I messaged the person after going and forth found out that he was still with the girl and they now have a child together as well. I was so broken. The girl had no idea that we were still together he was lieing to both of us. I felt so stupid how can you live with a man and not realize he has another family 40 min away.
Eight months later I am still here with no idea what to do! On one end I feel bad for him because she is making it hard for him to see his daughter I have to tell him what to say to her so he can see her, today was his first time since I found out and the only reason was because he threatened a lawyer and court. On the other end I hate him for everything he had done to me our entire relationship was based on a lie and the worst part is I have no one that I can vent to and get a response from no one knows I am hurting and dieting inside. Should I stay ?
[This message edited by kw23 at 4:50 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)]