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Newest Member: Brokeninnm38 (61788)

User Topic: Ahah Moment for me
♂ 36615
Member # 36615
Default  Posted: 5:07 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A local election (for mayors, etc) is taking place where I live next week.

The former AP is running for office in a constituency next to mine.

I saw it in a panfleat and online.
When I saw the picture I bursted out laughing.
Not only my head was completely messed up; my vision was really screwed up. I wanted to share this with my wife but I haven't yet. I don't know if I should

I have such a beautiful, sexy and lovable wife.
Only thinking that I once was destroying everything I have built with her now only makes me laugh.

Just wanted to share

WH(me) - 36
BW - 36
Together since 20. Married since 26.
2 month A while Separated in Dec 2011-Feb 2012
Dday - Late April 2012
NC message 31 March 2012. Several NC breaks until September 2012
Complete NC (not even casual) since Early September

Posts: 78 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Portugal
♀ 30631
Member # 30631
Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, you should. Don't let her run across this on her own.
Windows! No walls. And don't forget to tell her how sorry and ashamed you are for hurting her and how much you adore her.
Personally, I'd rather have my fwh tell me than run across something. That happens enough on it's own. Be her protector.

In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!

Posts: 917 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
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Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You were wearing what I call the "affair goggles". It distorts everything you see. Your life, your marriage, your spouse and your AP.

I feel you should share it with your wife. She might get upset if you don't let her know that you saw a picture of AP. You need to be completely transparent with your wife.

I am glad you can laugh at your foolishness now.

Best of luck!

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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