SurvivingInfidelity.com Forum Archives

sunsetslost posted 9/23/2013 08:14 AM

Hey, I'm an uncle again. STBX sister in law just had a baby girl. Very happy for them, I honestly am. I drew the line at going to the hospital, though I wasn't invited. What I mean is I wouldn't have gone if I was. I'll likely never meet the lass but I'm genuinely happy for STBX's family.

Take2 posted 9/23/2013 08:18 AM

Thought you meant you were calling "Uncle" as to divorce crap. Whew! Glad to hear it is about a new baby!

sunsetslost posted 9/23/2013 08:26 AM

lol Take2. The divorce is on like donkey kong. She's out, I'm out. All the way.

Take2 posted 9/23/2013 08:49 AM

Sunset - I don't really believe in the Karma bus that runs people down - but I do believe in the Karma that blesses those who hang on to what is good, and true.

You've got a good heart. For those sunsets lost, I see sunrises found in your future.

sunsetslost posted 9/23/2013 08:57 AM

That's the goal Take2. Thanks for the kind words

Ashland13 posted 9/24/2013 14:46 PM

Not easy, Sunsets.

FWIW, I wanted to chime in and say that I think it's pretty great of you to acknowledge the person and their life change, considering where you stand in their life now. It takes courage to acknowledge that there's still a life that goes on in the X's world after we've been wronged by them and I just wanted to give you credit for that.

sunsetslost posted 9/24/2013 17:47 PM

Thanks Ash. I've learned so much about myself these past months. I had a choice to make early on. I could allow myself to be a bitter and broken man or I could use the lessons I've learned and strive to become a better person. I learned at my core I am a kind and loving person. That's what I'm running with. Her loss.