BS - Me
POS is supposed to start sending CS beginning October 1. I have agreed not to get CSE involved as long as he pays as he is required to do. Thus, payments will be sent directly to me. POS sends an email this morning asking if the payment should be made out in DD's name...
He knows full well it goes to me, but this is his way of playing little games. He didn't seem to have any problem sending secret unofficial support to OW#1 for OC#1 directly to her for 15 years, yet now he has to play these stupid "I'm an ignorant ass" games. Then he finishes his email with a quip about keeping the emails civil blah, blah, blah.
Here is why it is so frustrating. I keep strict NC unless absolutely necessary or he asks a specific question that actually requires an answer. I DON'T WANT TO TALK TO HIM, yet his stupid question about the CS requires a response, for obvious reasons. Just send me the money you owe, jerk off, and quit with the games!!
One missed payment and off to CSE I will go!!!
Oh, and remember the whole PO Box issue? Well, he said (in same email as above) that because he still co-owns property in this state (referring to the marital home) he will use that box as his mailing address. More fucking stupidity and head games. Hey asshole, since you seemed to have a memory problem, let me refresh it. You quitclaimed the property to me and it is awarded outright to me in the divorce settlement! You don't co-own DICK in this state!
Save me from these NPD assholes who believe they are smarter than everyone else and can "play" the system to their advantage....
[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 12:40 PM, September 23rd (Monday)]
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - 2 adult DDs - DS20 Deceased
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