I couldn’t agree more with lifeiscrazy, our BS want to feel important again, that they are the most important person in your life, that nothing trumps your attention towards her, NOTHING, not work, sports, kids etc… We need to be intentional in the way we show her how we are working to repair our eff up.
A few things I have begun to do- and should have done all along.
I write a love note on the bathroom mirror every morning.
I text her “I love you” before 8am every morning from work.
I try really hard to call her atleast once during the day just to tell her I miss her.
I hug her at every chance I get---Kisses too..I make her let go first.
I constanstly remind her how much I love
I stop whatever I am doing to listen---even it is not good or she is triggering
I try and keep my mouth shut----needs work still.
Be intentional all the time.
I suggest if you can you plan a weekend alone with your BS and focus on her, ride the wave, cry together, cuddle, laugh bring up stories that made you fall in love with her. Again, I can’t stress enough be INTENTIONAL. This may help her see you are trying.
Good luck
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