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Clarrissa posted 9/23/2013 18:38 PM

She's a wayward that my H talked to online and directed here. He also gave her my username so she would already "know" someone here. I know she's registered but has yet to post. I've PMed with her a few times, encouraging her to tell her story but she's understandably hesitant to do so, even though she's lurked for a while now. She's also not sure how much of her story to post. I know some of her story through my H but I don't want to say anything here, allow her to tell what she's comfortable with.

I know she can get the help she needs and I've reassured her that no one will judge her, that we just want to help.

I'm hoping she reads this post and the replies and that it will allay some of her fears about putting her story out here.

So I'll be the first to say: Welcome flowerisland, you're safe here.

MissesJai posted 9/23/2013 18:38 PM

So I'll be the first to say: Welcome flowerisland, you're safe here.

Aubrie posted 9/23/2013 18:44 PM

Welcome flowerisland, you're safe here

knightsbff posted 9/23/2013 18:59 PM

Hi flowerisland,

Welcome to SI. This is a great place for support and help getting through this nightmare that we created.

We've been there, done that and are here for you when you're ready.

SurprisinglyOkay posted 9/23/2013 19:12 PM

ophelia24 posted 9/23/2013 19:22 PM

Most definitely welcome! Read my profile Flowerisland. I've done some terrible things to myself, my H and family. This is a great place to work through the morass of pain we carry.

Hope to see you soon.

Darkness Falls posted 9/23/2013 19:48 PM

Welcome flowerisland.

Unagie posted 9/23/2013 20:24 PM

Welcome Flowerisland, you just found the best most understanding and honest place for a wayward. You're safe here. Please feel free to PM if you want to talk.

Joanh posted 9/23/2013 20:53 PM

Welcome to the place where you can be free to say what is on your mind and know most of us if not all of us understand part if not all the feelings you are going through. If this is what you want is to become true to your self free and loving to yourself . This is a great place I know its given me a place to be free with my thots. and has allowed me to see the world through some different set of eyes as well. Welcome my dear.