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User Topic: please welcome flowerisland
Clarrissa
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Member # 21886
Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's a wayward that my H talked to online and directed here. He also gave her my username so she would already "know" someone here. I know she's registered but has yet to post. I've PMed with her a few times, encouraging her to tell her story but she's understandably hesitant to do so, even though she's lurked for a while now. She's also not sure how much of her story to post. I know some of her story through my H but I don't want to say anything here, allow her to tell what she's comfortable with.

I know she can get the help she needs and I've reassured her that no one will judge her, that we just want to help.

I'm hoping she reads this post and the replies and that it will allay some of her fears about putting her story out here.

So I'll be the first to say: Welcome flowerisland, you're safe here.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 5896 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
MissesJai
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Member # 24849
Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I'll be the first to say: Welcome flowerisland, you're safe here.
x2!


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 6046 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome flowerisland, you're safe here


"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

Posts: 6533 | Registered: Nov 2011
knightsbff
♀ 36853
Member # 36853
Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi flowerisland,

Welcome to SI. This is a great place for support and help getting through this nightmare that we created.

We've been there, done that and are here for you when you're ready.


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


Posts: 1526 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
SurprisinglyOkay
♀ 36684
Member # 36684
Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FWS me 37 (recovering addict)
BS him 40 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1155 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
ophelia24
♀ 38438
Member # 38438
Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Most definitely welcome! Read my profile Flowerisland. I've done some terrible things to myself, my H and family. This is a great place to work through the morass of pain we carry.

Hope to see you soon.


“Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up.”
― James Baldwin

Posts: 283 | Registered: Feb 2013
heartbroken0903
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Member # 27879
Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome flowerisland.


Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

We remarried in 2014.


Posts: 2374 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
Unagie
♀ 37091
Member # 37091
Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome Flowerisland, you just found the best most understanding and honest place for a wayward. You're safe here. Please feel free to PM if you want to talk.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss


Posts: 2813 | Registered: Oct 2012
Joanh
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome to the place where you can be free to say what is on your mind and know most of us if not all of us understand part if not all the feelings you are going through. If this is what you want is to become true to your self free and loving to yourself . This is a great place I know its given me a place to be free with my thots. and has allowed me to see the world through some different set of eyes as well. Welcome my dear.


BH 39
WW 43
D day November 9, 2012
3 children 22, 8, 6
Just....

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