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Topic: please welcome flowerisland
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Clarrissa
♀ 21886
Member # 21886 |  Posted: 6:38 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013 |     |
She's a wayward that my H talked to online and directed here. He also gave her my username so she would already "know" someone here. I know she's registered but has yet to post. I've PMed with her a few times, encouraging her to tell her story but she's understandably hesitant to do so, even though she's lurked for a while now. She's also not sure how much of her story to post. I know some of her story through my H but I don't want to say anything here, allow her to tell what she's comfortable with.
I know she can get the help she needs and I've reassured her that no one will judge her, that we just want to help.
I'm hoping she reads this post and the replies and that it will allay some of her fears about putting her story out here.
So I'll be the first to say: Welcome flowerisland, you're safe here. 
BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49
All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.
Posts: 5960 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place |
MissesJai
♀ 24849
Member # 24849 | | Posted: 6:38 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013 | |
So I'll be the first to say: Welcome flowerisland, you're safe here. x2!
FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson
Posts: 6066 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal..... |
Aubrie
♀ 33886
Member # 33886 | | Posted: 6:44 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013 | |
Welcome flowerisland, you're safe here
"You give me that bottom of the 9th, last at bat, tied game, grand slam, full of butterflies kind of feeling." - My Husband
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Posts: 6772 | Registered: Nov 2011 |
knightsbff
♀ 36853
Member # 36853 | | Posted: 6:59 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013 | |
Hi flowerisland,
Welcome to SI. This is a great place for support and help getting through this nightmare that we created.
We've been there, done that and are here for you when you're ready.
FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs
I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️
Posts: 1599 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA |
SurprisinglyOkay
♀ 36684
Member # 36684 | | Posted: 7:12 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013 | |
FWS me 37 (recovering addict)
BS him 40 AFrayedKnot
Together 8 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
Posts: 1158 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B |
ophelia24
♀ 38438
Member # 38438 | | Posted: 7:22 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013 | |
Most definitely welcome! Read my profile Flowerisland. I've done some terrible things to myself, my H and family. This is a great place to work through the morass of pain we carry.
Hope to see you soon.
“Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up.”
― James Baldwin
Posts: 288 | Registered: Feb 2013 |
heartbroken0903
♀ 27879
Member # 27879 | | Posted: 7:48 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013 | |
Welcome flowerisland.
Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids
Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10
We remarried in 2014
Posts: 2422 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow |
Unagie
♀ 37091
Member # 37091 | | Posted: 8:24 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013 | |
Welcome Flowerisland, you just found the best most understanding and honest place for a wayward. You're safe here. Please feel free to PM if you want to talk.
Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild
No longer together
"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss
Posts: 2896 | Registered: Oct 2012 |
Joanh
♀ 39146
Member # 39146 | | Posted: 8:53 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013 | |
Welcome to the place where you can be free to say what is on your mind and know most of us if not all of us understand part if not all the feelings you are going through. If this is what you want is to become true to your self free and loving to yourself . This is a great place I know its given me a place to be free with my thots. and has allowed me to see the world through some different set of eyes as well. Welcome my dear.
BH 39
WW 43
D day November 9, 2012
3 children 22, 8, 6
Just....
Posts: 440 | Registered: Apr 2013 |
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