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User Topic: Lab test results are in
♀ 40474
Member # 40474
Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good news for me.

The skank prostitute didn't give him anything when they had unprotected sex during their 7 year A, but he didn't know that he was clean or that she was clean, when he and I had "reconnect sex" back in March/April. That behavior put me at risk as he kept to his first "story", which of course I know now, was a lie.

I was very verbal reminding him to think of just how many other penises were stuck inside her, before and during their A, because she was a prostitute! ...and he thought he was so special to her.

I have mentioned here that Happy Hank is a bit simple, & it seems that part of his brain didn't compute consciously that she was a hooker. I spelled it out for him, and our pastor spelled it out for him, but I think it really hit him when he heard it from our pastor, who calmly and coolly took WH through the steps of his behavior, the money that he gave, the sad sob stories she gave--it was always something, and then the sex and the whole ball of wax.

I was hoping the lab would do the "wooden stick with a swab on the end" up his penis to get a sample of whatever to test, but they don't do that anymore as a urine test will suffice. Drat.

Then, I was hoping they'd do that test where they use 20 grit sandpaper on his penis and get a skin scraping sample for another kind of STD test. They don't do that one anymore either. Drat.

Good news, though, no STDs, no Hep C, etc.

Thank goodness for this site, the books people have recommended, the special folks who take the time to connect with me through PM, and thank goodness for MC and IC.

DDay: Feb. 25, 2013
Trickle Truth/DDays: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)

Posts: 620 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: U.S.A.
OK now
♀ 14459
Member # 14459
Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm happy for you that there are no STD's and so sad that wooden sticks and sandpaper aren't used anymore. Medical science sometimes makes 'improvements' that are counterproductive; at least as far as you and I are concerned.

Posts: 2062 | Registered: May 2007 | From: NC
♀ 37735
Member # 37735
Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep, a little sandpaper might be fitting & something he would never forget.

Me: BW
Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011
Married 28 years/Together 29 years/4 kids together
OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids
Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

Posts: 2490 | Registered: Dec 2012
♀ 36307
Member # 36307
Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am truly happy for YOU that the lab results were clear. What chances these old fools take for a piece of ass.
(Sorry that's what she was by your description)

No fool like an old fool!!!!!!!!

BS: Me (65yo)FWH: HIM (67yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013

friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.

Posts: 741 | Registered: Jul 2012
Topic Posts: 4

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