Good news for me.
The skank prostitute didn't give him anything when they had unprotected sex during their 7 year A, but he didn't know that he was clean or that she was clean, when he and I had "reconnect sex" back in March/April. That behavior put me at risk as he kept to his first "story", which of course I know now, was a lie.
I was very verbal reminding him to think of just how many other penises were stuck inside her, before and during their A, because she was a prostitute! ...and he thought he was so special to her.
I have mentioned here that Happy Hank is a bit simple, & it seems that part of his brain didn't compute consciously that she was a hooker. I spelled it out for him, and our pastor spelled it out for him, but I think it really hit him when he heard it from our pastor, who calmly and coolly took WH through the steps of his behavior, the money that he gave, the sad sob stories she gave--it was always something, and then the sex and the whole ball of wax.
I was hoping the lab would do the "wooden stick with a swab on the end" up his penis to get a sample of whatever to test, but they don't do that anymore as a urine test will suffice. Drat.
Then, I was hoping they'd do that test where they use 20 grit sandpaper on his penis and get a skin scraping sample for another kind of STD test. They don't do that one anymore either. Drat.
Good news, though, no STDs, no Hep C, etc.
Thank goodness for this site, the books people have recommended, the special folks who take the time to connect with me through PM, and thank goodness for MC and IC.
DDay: Feb. 25, 2013Trickle Truth/DDays: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)
