Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.
So I found out through a friend's blog that butthead had another baby. The fact that I don't have a baby bothers me, but what really bothers me is all the money he spent on the whore wife.
That blog entry just pissed me off for that one fact. The money. I'm still really pissed off about the money. I mean REALLY pissed off.
He spent money that I earned on all of his whores. They got vacations and gifts and cars and whatever else they needed and I got yelled out for buying a candy bar. He left and agreed to still pay half the mortgage. The house nearly went into foreclosure because he didn't pay. I had to put more of my money into fixing the house up to sell and he had the nerve to threaten to stop the sale at the last minute.
He probably took upwards of $20,000 between whoring around, not helping me fix up the house, and me having to pay for his half of the mortgage and to 3 full months of mortgage payments I had to pay to catch everything back up even though I had already paid half for those months.
I paid for him to finish getting his degree. When he moved out he paid off all his credit cards so he didn't have debt. More money that I earned.
I know he has a great paying job because he tried to friend DH on linked in. I paid for him to get that damn job because I paid for the lawyer that got him off assault charges when he got fired from his previous job. My former swimmer got him the job that led to the clearance for him to get his current job.
I have NC with him and will not get in touch with him, but I so want my money back.
I never give him a thought until I saw that blog post. Then all I saw was dollar signs. I will be okay, but I still want my money back!
My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.