Topic: XW and OM are married
Member # 37468
| Posted: 8:39 AM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
I forgot to post this when it happened. XW and OM got married on Sunday (22nd).
Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 7 (deceased).
Posts: 878 | Registered: Nov 2012
Member # 36827
| Posted: 9:54 AM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
Fantastic... Fuck'em. Together they add up to less than dog shit in the gutter. Can't wait until the day you reckon they have the same value. Strength friend!
D-Day spring 2012
Me BS 48
One DD 20
Married 23 years
Divorced 12/23/13 Fu*king A!
The cruel, the unkind, those without honor, feast on the tender heart...
Posts: 663 | Registered: Sep 2012
Member # 30024
| Posted: 10:09 AM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
Let's take bets on how long before one of them cheats.
The OW in our case cheated on its first XBH with MOM. MOM & OW lived together and OW started fucking my FWH. OW married MOM and fucked my FWH 3 weeks before the wedding and 3 weeks after. Marriage is so special to them!
BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4-7yrs. /fucking & flirting)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson
Posts: 11130 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Member # 26912
| Posted: 10:10 AM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
My XH married his OW 4 weeks after our D was final so I know exactly how you feel.... I keep waiting for that Karma bus to come rolling through his life but it has yet to happen...
DIVORCED! Remarried to a real man!
BW (me) - 41 (now 47)
WH (him) - 43 (now 48)
OW - 23 yr old foreign gold digging whore looking for her American meal ticket
1 14 yr old son (now 20)
married 20 years/together 25 years
D day - 9/23/2009 5pm
Posts: 809 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Mid Atlantic coast
Member # 35229
| Posted: 10:52 AM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
I suspect I'll be relieved when it happens - kinda like when you finally sell that used car that caused you nothing but grief.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5922 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 19595
| Posted: 11:36 AM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
Sickening because we know how they honor wedding vows.
FT married Twat within 2 mo after our D was final and they've been together 6 yrs altogether. Now they have a baby and living in her home country of Thailand. Yep, he was still on dating sites as of a year ago.
They all deserve each other.
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Posts: 20405 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
Member # 16953
| Posted: 1:27 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
Break out the popcorn and take a seat. The show that's coming up is going to be a good one.
You cant eat soup with chopsticks.
Posts: 6515 | Registered: Nov 2007
Member # 40264
| Posted: 1:32 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
((HUGS)) can't imagine how you're feeling - either sad, pissed off or indifferent it sucks. But...whether their marriage lasts or not, I hope YOU find the happiness you DESERVE!!!
Me-BW Him - WH
Married 6 years, together 15 years
3 awesome and beautiful children
OC discovered on Dday - born in 2005
D-Day Summer 2013
working towards D...I can't pretend anymore
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Posts: 502 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
Member # 15584
| Posted: 1:35 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
How does your daughter feel about XW and OM being married?
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Posts: 4399 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Member # 33882
| Posted: 1:55 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
They deserve each other, remember that.
him (NPD Ex)
"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."
Posts: 2699 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Member # 5929
| Posted: 5:40 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
Good god, how tacky.
Keep calm and carry on.
Posts: 49483 | Registered: Nov 2004 | From: Minneapolis
Member # 10516
| Posted: 6:04 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
Just noticed your divorce was final in July.
I always say they are perfect together. Perfect liars, cheater, and losers and nobody else with morals or values will be with them so they have to settle with who they cheated with.
Me: BS 54
Son: 28 years old
Daughter: 26 years old
D-day(s) 9/23/94 - 1/31/05
Posts: 7501 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Illinois
Member # 21964
| Posted: 6:08 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
Well that was nice & quick. And we all know how well quickie marriages usually workout. It's such a truism that there's a saying about it "marry in haste, repent in leisure".
It's also a sign that she's needy and needs to have someone regardless of whom. Funny that bc it's yet another sign that bodes ill for happy happy unicorn, my little pony rainbow fantasyland being a shining success.
"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott
Posts: 3446 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
Member # 34426
| Posted: 6:34 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
Thinking of you mate.....!
So soon as well. Not your problem now as much as it still hurts. Your still a it's new to the recovery. Take your time!
Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.
Posts: 676 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
Member # 12050
| Posted: 7:07 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
X and OW married last October in my case. It affects me way less than I thought it would however I was very bothered at the time. I just hope that we all get to the point that we don't give a shit.
Posts: 2865 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: newfoundland
Member # 31468
| Posted: 8:51 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
My XWH and OW married a year after and it still stung a little. But. I wish them all the happiness they deserve....lol
They've now been married just over a year and I really don't care at all, though I have no desire to see him.
However, PIC, I hope you're okay - you deserve better. ((Hugs))
Status: D 2011
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling
Posts: 4934 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 33698
| Posted: 8:52 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
My XWH married the OW one month after our divorce was final; he also pushed the D through faster (the plan was to be divorced by the beginning of this month) so that they could take their blessed vows, and she'd have health insurance and a place to live (since they are now the Paragons of Virtue, and it wouldn't do to have her sleep over while they were not yet married, even though screwing each other while they were married to other people was just fine).
When I tell people that he married her one month after the D, they have all been completely appalled right across the board. It shows you how desperate, needy, and pathetic they are. They can't be alone, and they will do anything to justify the havoc they wreaked. If they marry the AP, they think it shows how real their love is and how they were meant to be. That means that hurting their faithful spouses, children, and other family members with their selfish behavior was all right in the end, right?
I think that my XWH and his Owife will cling together out of shame, so I don't anticipate a D any time soon. However, I can't imagine rushing to marry someone so fast or basing a marriage on a foundation of cheating. How can that go anywhere except downhill?
Just bear this in mind, as they say on here: "If they're willing to do it with you, then they're willing to do it to you."
I don't predict years of bliss and happiness for any married cheaters. I agree with what a previous poster said-- be glad that your XW is not YOUR problem anymore!
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3811 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 38561
| Posted: 9:39 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
I'm hoping that you are taking an indifferent stance on this OP. Marrying someone on such a shitty foundation is like building a space shuttle out of the wreckage of another ship and hoping it will take you to the moon without issue.
I recently found out that XWGF started sleeping with a family friend about 2 months after Dday. She sees nothing wrong with it and thinks its healthy to jump right to someone else all the while "working on myself" keeps falling out of her mouth. They are weak people who have little ability to be alone and truly deal with themselves. Hope you are doing okay.
ME - A new person
HER - A waining memory
DDay - 2/22/2013
2-3 month EA/PA
Together for 6 years, ready to start my life . . .
"I can fill the flask up, but can't get past us
I'm in the storm, staying strong, but can't get back
Posts: 177 | Registered: Feb 2013
Member # 30217
| Posted: 10:46 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
Well, that marriage license is probably worth about the value of the paper it was written on. I used to work in an office supply business. I think the fancy stuff ran about $.03 a sheet.
So, I kinda think that's a 3 cent marriage.....or less.
Sit back with the popcorn and wait for it.....wait for it.....
Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...
God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
Posts: 3171 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Colorado
Member # 36445
| Posted: 5:57 AM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013|
My xwh and the OW married about a month ago.
Take it easy on yourself, the shock may take a while for it sink in.
I agree though sit back with the popcorn and watch. One day they will get what they deserve because wedding vows are so important to them
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Posts: 1496 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
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